Veterans Board [Archive]

Birthdays (1 replies)
Back again… (5 replies)
Struggling (3 replies)
Anyone remember Slip? (2 replies)
Seeking advice about how to help my 13 year old who I just found out is self harming (1 replies)
Dealing with scars in a professional circumstance (1 replies)
Dealing with scars in a professional circumstance (0 replies)
Relationship - talking about urges with them *possible trigger?* (1 replies)
Am I actually ok? (3 replies)
Pregnancy and having a child (20 replies)
Hi (2 replies)
News about Pea Soup/liveforthemoment *trigger warning suicide* (7 replies)
Recovered - kinda! What do I do now? (8 replies)
Any ruinyourlifers? (30 replies)
Hello from the other side! (3 replies)
Random thinking (3 replies)
Hi after 12+ years! (4 replies)
TW: having trouble. (4 replies)
Hi everyone (4 replies)
Hi everyone (6 replies)
Sad news concerning Rowie/Rowena (25 replies)
10 years down the drain... *SH Triggering* (3 replies)
Emotionally Abusive Relationship (4 replies)
Hopeless (1 replies)
[possibly triggering] [relationship] What do I do next? (2 replies)
Harming daily (4 replies)
Triggered (4 replies)
Can you ever say you are an ex SH (4 replies)
I failed, after 12+ years.. [Triggering - SI, ED, (mild) Abuse] (7 replies)
Decisions decisions (3 replies)
Longstanding family issues & Xmas (0 replies)
Longstanding family issues & Xmas (3 replies)
I could possibly have the life I've always dreamt of if it weren't for my self harm TRIGGER WARNING (12 replies)
Struggling with a baby, life, and being an adult (8 replies)
trigger warnings ramblings (2 replies)
What happend to the shop on ryl (2 replies)
Hi (5 replies)
The trouble with meaning well *suicide* (20 replies)
perimenopause (0 replies)
Always been a lurker but I can't do this anymore (1 replies)
5 year hiatus - I guess I am back. (1 replies)
What will happen in the future? (5 replies)
cut off family of origin and feeling sad (3 replies)
I am reeling (3 replies)
Life spiralling out of control (1 replies)
Checking in - where's my peeps? (29 replies)
Been around for a while. (1 replies)
Sitting here with just my thoughts (6 replies)
Adulting with kids (2 replies)
I have been away for 8 years (1 replies)
Meds/Depression/SI *triggers - probably* (3 replies)
All grown up but still groaning (9 replies)
Years of SI... (1 replies)
A little reflection (2 replies)
My new blog project (3 replies)
Shall we have a chat party? (1 replies)
Can someone please help me adult *discusses wounds* (14 replies)
Two years (5 replies)
Just checking in.... (3 replies)
Well... hi. How did I end up back here? (2 replies)
nowhere to turn (8 replies)
Checking in after a while (4 replies)
checking in after several years awol (4 replies)
Day 1 (4 replies)
Random Triggering - Question (SI) (3 replies)
Stopping by to say hi *a bit about SH* (12 replies)
Returning member now a vet :S (2 replies)
I just wanted to check in.. (5 replies)
Of course I came running back... *substance abuse* (13 replies)
Back again (10 replies)
Back Again... (1 replies)
Too old for this (7 replies)
life comes in waves ....I feel myself drifting (12 replies)
Triggering maybe? (6 replies)
SI Trigger* There Comes a Time... (6 replies)
Everybody please (1 replies)
I would reallly like some kind words right about now. (4 replies)
Phobias (2 replies)
It's been awhile... (3 replies)
Career, family, and crashing *trigger warning* (4 replies)
Positive- MME Most Members Ever Day (2 replies)
Returning to RYL after a long break... (3 replies)
Back :( (3 replies)
I've returned! (2 replies)
Feeling Watched (21 replies)
Irratability (4 replies)
Will social services become involved if I tell the dr I'm cutting again (2 replies)
Its been a while RYL (15 replies)
Slipping **Triggering - SI/Suicide** (16 replies)
Husband trying to be intimate whilst sleeping (8 replies)
Job interviews (10 replies)
So, I've come back... (5 replies)
trichtillomania (3 replies)
I don't know where to turn *Triggering Si/Suicide* (2 replies)
Help! I need my libido back! (2 replies)
Just justification (12 replies)
been a while..... (1 replies)
So alone...just need a friend. (4 replies)
What is life?! *SH*Drugs* (3 replies)
Slut Whore I don't know what I am (3 replies)
Divorce (3 replies)
Didn't think I'd be back here (1 replies)
Too old, too dumb, too useless, too pathetic (19 replies)
Sleep and marriage (5 replies)
Is this ok? (4 replies)
Showing My Scars (5 replies)
Stagnate, Stuck and Confused (4 replies)
I don't know how to make Love (3 replies)
Hello (4 replies)
Parenting. Husbands. Life! (3 replies)
Doing something nice for yourself backfiring (5 replies)
Obsessing (3 replies)
Body Clock (2 replies)
Old bondage kink causing depression, please help (2 replies)
Feeling too old for this (6 replies)
Esa change of circumstances form (12 replies)
I thought I was past this (5 replies)
i cannot control my impuses (8 replies)
Over half my life, how much more. (10 replies)
Sorry to make another thread . Sexual Frustration. (3 replies)
work changes and frazzled nerves (4 replies)
I'm learning French (1 replies)
Sorry (4 replies)
This Life (1 replies)
Question for any old members from around 2004 (1 replies)
Alone time? (6 replies)
I Need To Get A Job. I need advice. (17 replies)
It's been a while... (5 replies)
Been along time........... (3 replies)
I'm Unwell again... (10 replies)
I do not know how to make friends. (19 replies)
Relapsing *triggering* *SI/Suicide* (2 replies)
I'm totally lost (3 replies)
As a parent... (4 replies)
CV (5 replies)
confused *triggering* *suicide* (2 replies)
Complaints against a University (2 replies)
; ? (4 replies)
I really wish there were tv shows (3 replies)
I don't know who I am. (3 replies)
Just a rant (1 replies)
Just want to be heard. (5 replies)
How do you make friends as a socially inept 'adult' (15 replies)
The positive post thread (71 replies)
Admitting things out loud (2 replies)
My Friend is Leaving. (1 replies)
#where does time go? (4 replies)
Eurgh, f a b. //potential trigger// (2 replies)
Is Ninja Penguin still here? (3 replies)
Lost it in front of partner (1 replies)
I return (2 replies)
Just popping in to say hey (2 replies)
That moment when... (8 replies)
Returning vet *SI* *Triggering* (4 replies)
looking for an old member (4 replies)
i feel like i dont fit anywhere (3 replies)
the problems with being mentally defunked mum. - contains mild SH (19 replies)
Triggering (Suicide, SH, ED) selfish rant (7 replies)
Need a bit of advice (5 replies)
Motivation for medical treatment *SI* (2 replies)
Pathetic childish loser (21 replies)
Meltdown (17 replies)
Here again after many years (6 replies)
Returning Veteran sh (14 replies)
Dunno. (7 replies)
Escalation of SH (1 replies)
starving...I'm an addict (trigger...) (13 replies)
Hi... (7 replies)
Expecting (8 replies)
Done something really bad? Like, morally bad? (7 replies)
Need some helpful advise on starting a family. (10 replies)
What Do I Do (4 replies)
Broke up with her after 8 years...please help. (2 replies)
Hi. I'm sorry but this ain't positive. (2 replies)
What is sleep? (3 replies)
Any parents around? (10 replies)
Today... (9 replies)
Work/doctors/meds/SI (4 replies)
It's been a while (3 replies)
Struggling tonight (6 replies)
Working in mental health when you have had difficulties (5 replies)
Back again.. (3 replies)
Long time no see.... (3 replies)
If you knew you were going to be alone for the rest of your life..? (18 replies)
So long time away... (5 replies)
To what extent does an EAP guarantee confidentiality? (3 replies)
Huge bazookas (9 replies)
Please Help Me Process This (13 replies)
Need Help Please.... (3 replies)
Dug myself into a hole (3 replies)
So...I'm back.... (3 replies)
I'm "The Other Woman." (13 replies)
SO...27.8 years. (3 replies)
Hullo (25 replies)
How on earth did we end up here, toto? (3 replies)
So... (3 replies)
Struggling (5 replies)
Moving house. (6 replies)
It's Rachel with a NEW TRUTH.... (3 replies)
I'm back (2 replies)
Here I am again.... (3 replies)
Getting Over Your Soulmate (6 replies)
Happy Birthday to me!!! (7 replies)
*TRIGGER SI/Suicide*Not Doing Well (4 replies)
When? (10 replies)
Struggling... (2 replies)
Tough time right now (1 replies)
I don't think I was prepared to adult *slight rant* (0 replies)
Feeling old and tired (1 replies)
Just a rant Triggering SH & ED (7 replies)
my daughter tries to hurt herself (4 replies)
Question (4 replies)
Housing (Contains abuse) (5 replies)
Need a friend that understands (5 replies)
legal help? (1 replies)
Almost relapsed today.... not really ok (2 replies)
Life is ****ing Stupid (16 replies)
Falling Out Of Love or Just In A Slump? (6 replies)
New baby...stress (8 replies)
(United States) is it lying if when asked if I'm disabled I say no? (9 replies)
Depressed and Lonely.... (9 replies)
Advice, will I be considered as a bad parent? (9 replies)
Too afraid to take a shower (vertigo) *non triggering (7 replies)
relapsed (2 replies)
trusting people...or not...not *triggering* (4 replies)
overwhelming fear (4 replies)
Torn between two choices, WWYD?(Jobs) (2 replies)
Slipped up after nearly 2 years (4 replies)
Work.... (1 replies)
Am I doing the right thing? (7 replies)
Zurg - please just a hug or some love needed (13 replies)
Kinda new here..... (5 replies)
Dissociative and triggered. Completely confused, help! *TRIGGERING SI* (1 replies)
It's been a while! (2 replies)
WTF is wrong with me... (6 replies)
So (169 replies)
Finding a job that is a good "fit." (1 replies)
why am I such a piece of ****? (2 replies)
Reporting past abuse (2 replies)
struggling with uni/placement (100 replies)
Just so angry (2 replies)
in a lot of pain and want to cut (2 replies)
36 and still SH :( why can't I stop? *Selfharm* (19 replies)
Desktop PC's (3 replies)
tried to get help and it just got more hopeless (1 replies)
trig sex abuse will i ever heal (5 replies)
Well here I am again - possible triggers (31 replies)
didnt know where to put this (1 replies)
How do you handle it? (1 replies)
really struggling (4 replies)