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Forum: General Chat 12-09-2009, 01:52 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,619
Posted By loveishere
Erm. I don't get it?

Erm. I don't get it?
Forum: General Support and Advice 23-08-2009, 08:08 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 712
Posted By loveishere
I think that Loving others means very little if...

I think that Loving others means very little if you don't love yourself. Yes, other people are important and we need them, but the first and most important relationship anyone can have is with...
Forum: General Support and Advice 23-08-2009, 07:57 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 748
Posted By loveishere
It sounds like your mum is just concerned and...

It sounds like your mum is just concerned and wants to help. If you want her to come in with you, then ask her to. I'm sure she wouldn't mind.
Do you want help? are you at a point where you are ready...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2009, 10:11 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 534
Posted By loveishere
Nearly five months free is seriously a fantastic...

Nearly five months free is seriously a fantastic achievement, especially since you have been having all these urges. It will get easier if you keep it up, I know it's hard and seems like it will...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2009, 09:55 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 450
Posted By loveishere
Hello Liz, welcome. I'm sorry to hear you've...

Hello Liz, welcome.
I'm sorry to hear you've been having a hard time.
I just want to tell you that you are not stupid, not weak and have no reason at all to hate yourself. Everyone slips up...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2009, 09:49 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 809
Posted By loveishere
I don't regret anything. I accept my scars...

I don't regret anything. I accept my scars completely as a part of my body that are unlikely to ever go away completely and I am okay with that. I used to be really self-conscious of them, but now I...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2009, 09:45 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 516
Posted By loveishere
Hello dear. Just because you gave in earlier does...

Hello dear.
Just because you gave in earlier does not mean you have to again. It's never too late to start over, you do not have to give in. I know you are strong and can get through whatever is...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2009, 08:24 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 603
Posted By loveishere
hello dear. Firstly I think it's great that you...

hello dear. Firstly I think it's great that you know that you really do not want to kill yourself, even though you are tempted to. Its really good that your cell went off, it would have been horrible...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2009, 08:05 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,349
Posted By loveishere
Heh, well this is the short version: My mom...

Heh, well this is the short version:
My mom suffered from depression when I was little. She was sad and angry a lot. My Dad worked a lot. much of my moms anger was directed at me. I tried so hard to...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2009, 07:07 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 606
Posted By loveishere
Well done on not cutting for a while, that takes...

Well done on not cutting for a while, that takes a lot of strength, and even though you are struggling now, you can keep up that strength. There's better ways to see that you are alive and feel...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 18-08-2009, 06:44 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 484
Posted By loveishere
Do you know what, if anything has led to you...

Do you know what, if anything has led to you feeling this way? I know how you feel and it is hard. If you need or want to talk about anything, please know that I am always willing to listen and try...
Forum: General Support and Advice 18-08-2009, 06:32 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 800
Posted By loveishere
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I...

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I don't even know you and I know you are a great person. It is okay to ask for help and say how you feel. you are worth our attention.
I used to hate...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2009, 01:17 AM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,074
Posted By loveishere
personally, I don't regret anything. I used to...

personally, I don't regret anything. I used to love my scars and want to make more, then a little ways into my recovery I HATED them and wished I never had them. Now I accept them as a part of my...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2009, 01:10 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 993
Posted By loveishere
I don't know where I stand on this. I think it's...

I don't know where I stand on this. I think it's about an attitude change. I have not harmed myself in 2.5 years and now, even though I still get the occasional urge, it is simply not an option and I...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2009, 01:05 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 628
Posted By loveishere
That is so great, congratulations. They make...

That is so great, congratulations.
They make cream for scars. I use cocoa butter lotion and I think it's helped a bit. it's been said, but vitamin E oil.
Whatever you do, do it soon, scar...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2009, 12:57 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,007
Posted By loveishere
That's great dear. don't minimize your...

That's great dear. don't minimize your accomplishment, you are doing great!
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2009, 12:55 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 547
Posted By loveishere
YAY that is fabulous! way to go.

YAY that is fabulous! way to go.
Forum: General Chat 18-08-2009, 12:24 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,333
Posted By loveishere
I would definitely not enjoy tasting/smelling my...

I would definitely not enjoy tasting/smelling my excrement, However, my face is too pretty to replace with an arse, And it would be an interesting conversation piece, "hello, my name is stephanie,...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 16-08-2009, 09:47 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,467
Posted By loveishere
I can relate dear and I know it's horrible....

I can relate dear and I know it's horrible. you're 18, so can't you move out? Do you have any friends you can stay with or money for your own place? If you've tried talking to your parents and they...
Forum: General Chat 14-08-2009, 07:10 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 795
Posted By loveishere
I used to be realllllllllly shy too. Now I am...

I used to be realllllllllly shy too. Now I am quite the opposite. Here are things that helped me:
-Go up to a table of people at lunch and ask if you can join, I have never been rejected this way and...
Forum: First Aid Advice 04-08-2009, 11:20 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 882
Posted By loveishere
thanks ladies. I have obnoxiously sensitive skin,...

thanks ladies. I have obnoxiously sensitive skin, so that is probably what did it. I'm sure I'll be fine.
Forum: First Aid Advice 04-08-2009, 01:21 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 882
Posted By loveishere
Girlie shaving issues..... help

So I never regularly shaved down there. Wow this is embarrassing, But I wanted to start. Whenever I have it's gotten fairly irritated, so someone told me to shave every day for a while so that my...
Forum: General Support and Advice 03-08-2009, 12:23 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 689
Posted By loveishere
Your reason can be yourself. And a desire to have...

Your reason can be yourself. And a desire to have a better life and to feel free and happy. But I understand if you don't care about those things right now.
But really, it's all a choice. I chose to...
Forum: General Support and Advice 02-08-2009, 11:53 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 689
Posted By loveishere
Thanks. I used to be a total pessimist. And I...

Thanks.
I used to be a total pessimist. And I felt very similar to how you described. It is possible to turn your life around. Now I am optimistic to the point where it sometimes annoys people, but I...
Forum: General Support and Advice 02-08-2009, 11:17 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 689
Posted By loveishere
I'm sure there is a point. Maybe you just can't...

I'm sure there is a point. Maybe you just can't see it right now. There is always hope. Don't give up. You are strong enough to overcome whatever it is you're going through.
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