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Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 03-09-2015, 01:43 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,698
Posted By Starla
I hit the decade mark several years ago and also...

I hit the decade mark several years ago and also felt like it was way too long to be doing this. I thought I was better when I was pregnant and then nursing my first born...then when she weaned all...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 31-07-2015, 02:57 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,142
Posted By Starla
Maybe you were looking for attention, but that...

Maybe you were looking for attention, but that isn't necessarily a bad thing. At least you are being honest with yourself. I can only reflect on when I started. I was 13 and in 8th grade (I'm 30...
Forum: Veterans Board 01-06-2015, 02:51 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 3,057
Posted By Starla
I just want to add it is cliche for ME to comment...

I just want to add it is cliche for ME to comment on the slip ups. I just reread my response and realized it could be taken the wrong way in which case I come off like a douche nozzle. :)
Forum: Veterans Board 01-06-2015, 02:49 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 3,057
Posted By Starla
Well hello, I am a bit of a wallflower here but...

Well hello,
I am a bit of a wallflower here but your post speaks to me and I can relate to a lot of what you are saying.
I know the overwhelming feeling of not having anyone to talk to and similarly...
Forum: Veterans Board 03-05-2015, 03:37 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,744
Posted By Starla
How's life going with the baby? Both of my babies...

How's life going with the baby? Both of my babies were terrible sleepers and since they were breastfed we wound up cosleeping which helped me get more sleep. I understand how overwhelming having a...
Forum: Veterans Board 08-04-2015, 02:30 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,972
Posted By Starla
Congratulations on your decision. I have two...

Congratulations on your decision. I have two young children and I never felt judged by anyone. I will say that pregnancy can be an emotional roller coaster so be prepared. It is so worth it though.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 10-02-2013, 03:04 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 746
Posted By Starla
I am pretty sure I got the idea from either a...

I am pretty sure I got the idea from either a teen magazine or an episode of 7th heaven. When I started I was really depressed and it was a cry for help. I do wonder if I hadn't heard about it if I...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 02-02-2013, 09:17 PM
Replies: 1,121
Views: 49,289
Posted By Starla
Where did you find this quote?

Where did you find this quote?
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 28-01-2013, 04:23 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 668
Posted By Starla
I was not at all offended. I just know that I...

I was not at all offended. I just know that I think for me I function better when I am busy because it keeps my mind busy and therefore off of sh. Of course I still get overwhelmed at times....but...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 27-01-2013, 01:37 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,034
Posted By Starla
To be honest it never helped me to talk to my...

To be honest it never helped me to talk to my husband about sh. We can talk about anything else. I find that talking about the reasons I want to sh does help and then I don't have to bring up the...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 27-01-2013, 01:33 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 668
Posted By Starla
I work the average 9-5 job and I have a kid and I...

I work the average 9-5 job and I have a kid and I think it has made my life better. The structure of it helps me manage my time. My job makes me feel like I am doing some good in the world. My...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 27-01-2013, 03:44 AM
Replies: 1,121
Views: 49,289
Posted By Starla
I am not sure how I feel about reinforcing this...

I am not sure how I feel about reinforcing this post but I feel like this needs to be said. If you are having trouble asking for help tell a teacher. It could even be a former teacher that you liked...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 27-01-2013, 03:28 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 626
Posted By Starla
I can relate. I go through periods of just...

I can relate. I go through periods of just longing for sh. I think that it just shows that it is an addiction. When you have been doing something for so long it truly becomes a habit. It's hard to...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 26-01-2013, 02:47 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 637
Posted By Starla
But one month is an accomplishment. Breaking...

But one month is an accomplishment. Breaking habits is difficult no matter what they are. Do you want to stop now as much as you did in 2004? Maybe you had a better support system? Did you ever try...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 26-01-2013, 02:36 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,034
Posted By Starla
I forgot to add that nearly 4 years free is...

I forgot to add that nearly 4 years free is amazing. The longest I have gone was 2 years but I understand how easy it is to regress to old habits.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 26-01-2013, 02:33 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,034
Posted By Starla
Have you talked with your husband about your...

Have you talked with your husband about your recent struggles with sh? He may be your greatest resource. I agree that finding something positive to do with your free time is essential for trying to...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 17-01-2013, 03:43 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 665
Posted By Starla
I think quite often the people in our lives don't...

I think quite often the people in our lives don't know how badly we need encouragement. Try giving them the benefit of the doubt that maybe they didn't commend your efforts because they've been...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 17-01-2013, 03:30 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 755
Posted By Starla
Personally I think that life after self harm can...

Personally I think that life after self harm can only come to fruition if you want it for yourself. The first step to achieving your goal is making the decision to try.... which obviously you did....
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 17-01-2013, 03:13 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 621
Posted By Starla
I have a 22 month old. I don't sh nearly as much...

I have a 22 month old. I don't sh nearly as much as I used to. I didnt at all while I was pregnant or breastfeeding. I thought I was over it.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 13-01-2013, 07:20 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 520
Posted By Starla
Welcome.

Welcome.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 06-01-2013, 04:00 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,154
Posted By Starla
The sky. It is infinite and full of...

The sky. It is infinite and full of possibilities. Go outside and look up. Even on a dreary day the beauty is breathtaking. Best wishes as you embrace your si free life.
Forum: Creativity and Reviews 15-09-2009, 12:53 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 543
Posted By Starla
Hmm, I've never really listened to them, but I...

Hmm, I've never really listened to them, but I did see them live at a tiny little venue 8 years ago. They put on a fun show.
Forum: Creativity and Reviews 14-09-2009, 04:05 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,170
Posted By Starla
I wasn't too impressed with the show but they...

I wasn't too impressed with the show but they played a lot of good music: Silversun Pickups, MGMT, and The Raconteurs(or maybe it was Jack White's other band-it's hard to keep them straight) to name...
Forum: Creativity and Reviews 14-09-2009, 04:03 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,338
Posted By Starla
My current favorites are Smashing Pumpkins,...

My current favorites are Smashing Pumpkins, Silversun Pickups, and Manchester Orchestra.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 17-08-2009, 03:05 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 669
Posted By Starla
Your mom probably doesn't know how to talk to you...

Your mom probably doesn't know how to talk to you about your sh, even though it seems like she really does care. I find that most people don't know how to give others the support they need, but also...
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