Last edited by [Purple_Rain] : 04-12-2012 at 01:17 PM.
Reason: removed questions that could lead to tip sharing.
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
Last edited by [Purple_Rain] : 04-12-2012 at 01:10 PM.
Reason: Same reason as to why your thread regarding that topic was removed.
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
The best way is to talk to a doctor now before things get any worse for you. Instead of thinking 'how can I self-harm in a safer way?' you should be thinking 'how can I stop before it's too late and I become addicted or do real damage?'
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
I'm wondering why it is that you want to know this... as has been said really you should try to find a way to stop entirly and use a healthier coping mechanism, rather than trying to plan how to continue self-harming... esspaically since no damage limitation techniques work forever
well if im gunnna do it i might aswell do it the safest way possible until i find something
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
I'm wondering why it is that you want to know this... as has been said really you should try to find a way to stop entirly and use a healthier coping mechanism, rather than trying to plan how to continue self-harming... esspaically since no damage limitation techniques work forever
This.
I wouldn't want to suggest any 'safer' ways because as said above, safer ways don't work forever and one day you'll find yourself wanting to push those boundaries to take steps further with your SH and that's how you get addicted.
Also, if I gave you safer ways, I feel you'd think 'oh everything is fine now this is safe' where as actually, I'd like you to see a doctor, talk to a counsellor, call Childline, all the things mentioned in your other thread.
ok, fair enough. But is there not the danger of you using this as a sort of excuse to not try to stop or to not get help? Sort of in a "I'm not doing that much damage so I don't need help" sort of way?
Ashlee, like we said in your earlier thread, we cannot give you any advice that encourages self harm in any way. This means we cannot answer these questions. If you are looking for advice on how to stop, it might be worth looking back at your old thread.
Please do not encourage self-harm in any way
Please do not share any information on methods to self-harm or any tips, including the best ways/places to self-harm.
It doesn't matter where you come from; it matters where you go.
No-one gets remembered for the things they didn't do.
We won't all be here this time next year,
so while you can take a picture of us.
We're definitely going to hell,
but we'll have all the best stories to tell.
also, eventually your self-harm WILL get worse, it happens eventually to almost everyone. And this is regardless of damage limitation, all you'll be doing is delaying the inevitable
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
I started when I was about 13, I was bullied throughout school and stuff was going on at home. I stopped when I was about 18/19. I've now not harmed for 5 years.
At first I didn't take care of my wounds, until one night my mother found me passed out and covered in blood. She rushed me to A&E where I had to sit with my mum & nan in tears for 4 hours. When a doctor looked at the wounds I'd harmed so deep I was told if I got an infection I could lose the entire limb.
I was then under the care of my nurse at the GP's surgery until the wound was healed.
After that I took extreme care of my wounds as ya know, I'm kinder understandably attached to my limbs.
Vi Veri Veniversum Vivus Vici.
By the power of truth, I, while living, have conquered the universe.
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
