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Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 20-11-2012, 08:26 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 812
Posted By my.lullaby
Opinions on not hiding fresh cuts on my arm?

I've gotten used to not hiding the scars on my arm, but recently I relapsed and made a few cuts on my arm without thinking. I would cover them when I'm out with friends or something, but if I am at...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-08-2012, 04:45 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 792
Posted By my.lullaby
I'm from the US so I'm not really sure, but my...

I'm from the US so I'm not really sure, but my school's policy is that they're going to tell someone (probably parents) if you're currently in danger of being hurt, including self harm. When my...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-08-2012, 04:36 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,374
Posted By my.lullaby
My school informed my parents. I told a friend,...

My school informed my parents. I told a friend, who told my guidance counselor, who talked to me for over an hour (granted, part of it was me arguing that she shouldn't call my mother and then...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 23-02-2012, 07:13 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 454
Posted By my.lullaby
Thanks so much for the replies and hugs :) I...

Thanks so much for the replies and hugs :)

I don't really think I can have a convo with my teacher, or hand her a letter or anything. As it is, I was never able to really look her in the eye at...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 22-02-2012, 09:15 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 454
Posted By my.lullaby
I need advice/support... really bad place.

There were/are 3 weeks between the appointment where I promised my therapist I wouldn't hurt myself and my next one. I went 2 weeks (technically 4 weeks free in total), but then I just broke down and...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 04-02-2012, 06:47 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,574
Posted By my.lullaby
Do most therapists understand self harm?

I have my first appointment with a psychologist soon and I'm pretty nervous that she'll tell me it's immature or tell me to just stop, etc. Do most therapists get it & not judge?

Also, is it likely...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 27-01-2012, 04:27 AM
Replies: 1,565
Views: 238,181
Posted By my.lullaby
"It makes me mad." "Every day I'm...

"It makes me mad."
"Every day I'm going to poke you in the hip so I'll know if you cut there."
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 17-01-2012, 08:31 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 522
Posted By my.lullaby
What is counseling like?

Social services is requiring my parents get me into counseling for self harm, but there are also other things like anxiety inside that issue. A school counselor has also told me that she thinks...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 16-01-2012, 07:41 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 426
Posted By my.lullaby
Don't know what to make of guilt-trips...

I think these things just come from the people in my life who care too much, but I don't know how to respond to them. Don't get me wrong, I'm grateful that I have people to say these things, but what...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 27-12-2011, 06:35 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 503
Posted By my.lullaby
I break down and cut every single day...?

I don't really even want to recover, but I have been trying recently, especially since my sister found out. It's getting so hard though, and I'm finding that I'm starting to push her away and lie to...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-12-2011, 07:52 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,000
Posted By my.lullaby
Social Services called because of self harm

A friend of mine who also self-harms got social services called on her. A social worker went down to our school and she got pulled out of class to go to her counselor's office (thank god the...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 12-12-2011, 08:29 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 447
Posted By my.lullaby
Cut again after 20 days without

I just feel so low and screwed up right now. I cut out of stress and fear for the first time since my school counselor found out about me. I'm seeing her tomorrow too and I really don't know what to...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 07-12-2011, 08:12 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 679
Posted By my.lullaby
How do you feel when people insist on "helping" you whether you want them to or not?

I mean along the lines of "I am telling your parents so they can get you help whether you want me to or not" or "I am telling your school counselor" or "You're going to therapy" or anything like...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 07-12-2011, 08:07 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 7,114
Posted By my.lullaby
Thank you for all the suggestions, everyone....

Thank you for all the suggestions, everyone. Helped a lot. :)
Forum: Fun and Distractions 03-12-2011, 08:13 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,194
Posted By my.lullaby
Did anyone watch you the last time you kissed...

Did anyone watch you the last time you kissed someone? No
When you're walking, do you stop to drink? No
Do you believe that if you want something bad enough you'll get it? No
Have you ever kissed...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 03-12-2011, 12:26 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 7,114
Posted By my.lullaby
How do I resist the urge to cut when it's night and I'm supposed to be sleeping?

During the day I'm honestly doing fine with the triggers, but when I lie down at night I just start thinking about all the things I'm dreading or freaking out about (I have anxiety), and I get the...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 24-11-2011, 01:45 AM
Replies: 199
Views: 9,860
Posted By my.lullaby
-Making some plans for the weekend with my...

-Making some plans for the weekend with my friends.
-My school counselor being the FIRST person ever to tell me to my face, "I care," and "If you need anything, I'm here."
-For the first time, I...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 09-10-2011, 07:00 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,308
Posted By my.lullaby
I've felt judged by some people but never by...

I've felt judged by some people but never by others. If somebody doesn't know me at all, I tend to hide more from them because I'm afraid of getting comments that I won't be able to reply to. There...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 02-10-2011, 08:01 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,444
Posted By my.lullaby
Thank you for all the answers. :) I guess I'm...

Thank you for all the answers. :) I guess I'm just going to go in and ask what she would do if she found out someone self-harmed. If the answer isn't as extreme as ER or mental hospital... I guess...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 01-10-2011, 05:49 AM
Replies: 1,565
Views: 238,181
Posted By my.lullaby
We were learning about how to talk about injuries...

We were learning about how to talk about injuries in Spanish class, and "cut yourself" (accidentally) came up, and a guy pretended to slit his wrists and act depressed. The teacher just laughed....
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 01-10-2011, 05:36 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,444
Posted By my.lullaby
Icon Question Anyone have experience with school counselors and SI? (Thinking of asking for help)

I was wondering if anyone had experience with talking with school counselors about self-harm. I've asked mine about it, but I was being cautious and only asked if she would report it, "out of...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 01-10-2011, 05:27 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,829
Posted By my.lullaby
I write lots of poetry about self-harm, and...

I write lots of poetry about self-harm, and although it's not too common I write stories as well. It's therapeutic, but I feel as if it's only putting off the cutting, not posing an alternative to it.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 23-07-2011, 07:40 AM
Replies: 1,192
Views: 46,643
Posted By my.lullaby
"I know you've always meant well, and it's...

"I know you've always meant well, and it's true I needed you for a while, but only until I could find my footing and find something else."
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 07-07-2011, 07:26 AM
Replies: 1,565
Views: 238,181
Posted By my.lullaby
Oh my god... that shocked me. So uninformed and...

Oh my god... that shocked me. So uninformed and inconsiderate.

I personally hate comments involving making fun of it, and assuming self-harm is attention-seeking. And also those people that make it...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 07-07-2011, 07:17 AM
Replies: 62
Views: 4,490
Posted By my.lullaby
Actually, I've noticed that less people comment...

Actually, I've noticed that less people comment than I think will. Though I definitely keep the scars hidden as much as I can, I notice stares sometimes that aren't necessarily accompanied by any...
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