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Mocha Happiness
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Serious Discussion and Advice
26-09-2010, 04:21 AM
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Tell Your Secrets! And Be Honest!!
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222,107
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Mocha Happiness
I love her so much, but I don't know if I'm...
I love her so much, but I don't know if I'm strong enough to save her.
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
29-08-2010, 09:59 AM
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12
how would you react?
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651
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Mocha Happiness
It is completely hypocritical and it makes...
It is completely hypocritical and it makes perfect sense for you to be upset about it. I would be pissed if someone said that to me.
That being said, I could see where she'd be coming from. Your...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
14-06-2010, 04:08 AM
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8
was 46 days free...now 0 days free...:[
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646
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Mocha Happiness
You made it 46 days, that's an accomplishment! ...
You made it 46 days, that's an accomplishment! You should be proud of yourself.
If you can do it once, you can do it again.
I know it really sucks when you thought you were doing well.
Do you...
Forum:
General Chat
14-06-2010, 02:22 AM
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ATTACK OF THE BIRDS
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1,344
Posted By
Mocha Happiness
I'm glad your dad is okay. Where I live, we have...
I'm glad your dad is okay.
Where I live, we have these huge crows, they're terrifying. If you're walking down the street, and they happen to have a nest nearby, they show no mercy.
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
13-06-2010, 02:29 AM
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9
addiction....
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717
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Mocha Happiness
I agree that the word "addiction" is...
I agree that the word "addiction" is tossed around so frequently now, it has almost no meaning. That being said, I think that there could be some level of psychological addiction, which could cause...
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Self-Harm Discussion and Support
11-06-2010, 01:20 PM
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1,192
What would you like to say to self-harm right now?
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Mocha Happiness
You broke me down. I spent years getting away...
You broke me down. I spent years getting away from you. Then you brought me back with promises of control and security. I'm done with you now, but you've got my best friend. I should have done...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
16-01-2010, 11:45 AM
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2
Triggering (SI) - I already have so many scars and Im only 14
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961
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Mocha Happiness
But I mean, there really is no "normal"...
But I mean, there really is no "normal" when it comes to this. Everyone is different. I think it depends on how deep they are, what triggers you, etc...
Also, if it's the scars themselves that are...
Forum:
Serious Discussion and Advice
10-01-2010, 11:13 AM
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11
Triggering (SI) - Telling People
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738
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Mocha Happiness
I think a letter might not be bad way to tell...
I think a letter might not be bad way to tell him.
Make sure to take time to talk about it after.
Sometimes it's easier to write things out, because you can make sure you say everything you want...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
10-01-2010, 11:04 AM
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142
Instead of "I need to cut"....
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5,509
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Mocha Happiness
I need more time. I need someone to tell me I can...
I need more time.
I need someone to tell me I can do this.
Forum:
Serious Discussion and Advice
10-10-2009, 10:02 AM
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28,885
Say here what you can't say to someone/Get something off your chest-new rules post 1
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Mocha Happiness
You just don't get it. I don't want this to...
You just don't get it.
I don't want this to end.
Stop trying to force it to.
I know it hurts you, but you don't understand how much I need this.
Forum:
Serious Discussion and Advice
27-09-2009, 12:09 PM
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28,885
Say here what you can't say to someone/Get something off your chest-new rules post 1
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1,485,511
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Mocha Happiness
I guess I was stupid to think you would take it...
I guess I was stupid to think you would take it well.
I get that I hurt you, and I can't say I'm sorry enough.
But I need you to just leave me alone until I'm ready to deal with it.
And I know that's...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
28-08-2009, 04:28 PM
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2
Triggering (SI) - 'Rant' lost
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588
Posted By
Mocha Happiness
You are worth it. I'm sorry you feel like you...
You are worth it.
I'm sorry you feel like you don't have anyone right now. I understand not wanting to let people in.
But it's a balancing act. You have to let people in so you can have people to...
Forum:
Serious Discussion and Advice
23-08-2009, 02:17 AM
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28,885
Say here what you can't say to someone/Get something off your chest-new rules post 1
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1,485,511
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Mocha Happiness
I know that you were tired and you didn't mean...
I know that you were tired and you didn't mean it. But I was looking for support and you failed to give it to me. And I'm angry about it. I hate how insensitive you can be. I love you, but you're...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
23-08-2009, 02:06 AM
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613
The SI Forum. Who are we?
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314,774
Posted By
Mocha Happiness
Wow, I can't believe I haven't posted here...
Wow, I can't believe I haven't posted here yet...
I'm Katie, I'm 16.
I live in Tokyo, Japan... It's pretty sweet.
I live with my mom and my uncle.
I'm an only child, and I don't have any pets,...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
23-08-2009, 01:58 AM
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19
Triggering (SI) - Kind of in a bad place (*sui trig to*) Update...
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776
Posted By
Mocha Happiness
You are worth helping. You deserve to feel...
You are worth helping. You deserve to feel better.
These boards can get slow sometimes, and you might have to wait for a response. It doesn't mean that no one cares, it just means that time zones...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
22-08-2009, 04:44 PM
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6
A Supporter Seeking Support
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547
Posted By
Mocha Happiness
First off, I applaud you for doing what you can...
First off, I applaud you for doing what you can to support her.
A lot of people react negatively to it, and it makes it hard to find a support network, which is really what she needs.
She's lucky to...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
22-08-2009, 03:23 PM
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42
Triggering (SI) - Are you proud?
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1,967
Posted By
Mocha Happiness
I'm not proud of what I did by any means, but if...
I'm not proud of what I did by any means, but if I could go back, I don't think I'd change a thing about it.
I met some amazing people through the face that we both SIed, and I there's no way in hell...
Forum:
Creativity and Reviews
22-08-2009, 02:04 PM
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6,743
What book are you reading or just read?
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1,450,869
Posted By
Mocha Happiness
I started The Unlikely Disciple: A Sinner's...
I started The Unlikely Disciple: A Sinner's Semester at America's Holiest University last week. I really like it so far. In a nutshell: A Brown student spends a semester at Liberty University, a...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
17-08-2009, 03:55 PM
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6
Triggering (SI) - Is sunburned scars bad..?
Views:
3,628
Posted By
Mocha Happiness
Scar tissue is more sensitive then your normal...
Scar tissue is more sensitive then your normal skin, and so it gets damaged easier and more severely by the sun. So it's kind of bad. As long as you keep them covered, you should be fine.
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
17-08-2009, 03:09 PM
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17
After how long are you a "recovered" self harmer?
Views:
993
Posted By
Mocha Happiness
As others have stated, there's no magic...
As others have stated, there's no magic number.
People can stop once, and be done with it forever.
People can relapse after going years without it.
I've been SI free for over two years, I don't think...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
17-08-2009, 02:35 PM
Replies:
47
Different names for the same thing. *probably safe*
Views:
2,190
Posted By
Mocha Happiness
For me, it depends entirely on who I'm talking...
For me, it depends entirely on who I'm talking to, and what the purpose is.
Online, I like the acronyms. I prefer SI over SH, but that's just a matter of opinion. I'm also more likely to use terms...
Forum:
Serious Discussion and Advice
17-08-2009, 01:21 PM
Replies:
4,729
Tell Your Secrets! And Be Honest!!
Views:
222,107
Posted By
Mocha Happiness
I keep talking about how excited I am for school...
I keep talking about how excited I am for school to start. Really, I'm scared shitless I won't be able to cope with the amount of work.
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
09-06-2009, 12:44 PM
Replies:
6
Triggering (OD) - im such an idiot
Views:
542
Posted By
Mocha Happiness
I'm sorry you're feeling like that. Your friend...
I'm sorry you're feeling like that.
Your friend loved you enough to stop you from ODing.
There are people that care about you.
Maybe you could talk to her about the way you're feeling.
You can do...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
07-06-2009, 01:39 PM
Replies:
3
i lost it now
Views:
387
Posted By
Mocha Happiness
I'm sorry you feel that way. You are NOT a...
I'm sorry you feel that way.
You are NOT a failure.
Trying to stop is so hard, and the fact that you're trying is admirable.
You are brave.
And maybe you slipped. At some point, you'll stop again,...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
06-06-2009, 03:19 PM
Replies:
6
Triggering (SI) - Help - I don't know which is best..
Views:
589
Posted By
Mocha Happiness
I'm so sorry you're having a hard time right...
I'm so sorry you're having a hard time right now.
At the very least, tell him that the comment upset you.
He probably didn't mean to undermine your pain. If you say nothing, you risk him doing it...
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