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Forum: General Support and Advice 02-07-2011, 02:47 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 56,892
Posted By Derrota
Sex is an amazing thing when the time is right,...

Sex is an amazing thing when the time is right, but before then it's just this awkward, pointless act that you'll probably regret. When you find the right person, you'll know ;)
Forum: General Support and Advice 02-07-2011, 01:05 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 510
Posted By Derrota
Haha yeah. I told my hubby about my dream and he...

Haha yeah. I told my hubby about my dream and he looked at me like I was crazy
Forum: General Support and Advice 01-07-2011, 10:08 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 510
Posted By Derrota
Dream! Opinions?

Okay, so I had this dream.. Like, it's nothing my husband would do, but in the dream my husband is a terrible guy.

So last night I had a dream that we had a daughter, and something happened where...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 01-07-2011, 08:18 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 405
Posted By Derrota
Taking 1 step forward and 10 back (could trigger)

Okay. I haven't SI'ed in about 3 years, which is great except for the fact that I want to soooooo bad. And my husband is so amazing, he listens to me when I have that desire and trys to help me...
Forum: General Chat 27-06-2011, 09:04 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 5,724
Posted By Derrota
I dont know how much it costs to process, but the...

I dont know how much it costs to process, but the actual 2x2 pictures are 9.99 at my job for a set of 2
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 21-06-2011, 10:15 PM
Replies: 613
Views: 298,571
Posted By Derrota
Hello :) I'm Alicia, I'm 18 I just got married 2...

Hello :)
I'm Alicia, I'm 18
I just got married 2 months ago to the most amazing man!
My kitten is Luna (she's crazy!)
I play videogames with the hubby and web design as a hobby
And no matter what...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 21-06-2011, 01:21 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,351
Posted By Derrota
I just went to a tattoo artist to get his opinion...

I just went to a tattoo artist to get his opinion on mine and he said since my scars are a couple years old, the skin should hold the ink just fine.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-06-2011, 02:35 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 533
Posted By Derrota
Try to relax and find another outlet. I know it's...

Try to relax and find another outlet. I know it's tough, especially since you aren't easing off of it you're just stopping. But you can do this. Maybe you can try to use this as an opportunity to...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-06-2011, 11:46 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,182
Posted By Derrota
During interviews I wear a long sleeved dress...

During interviews I wear a long sleeved dress shirt. I work at CVS currently and during work I'm either in a long sleeved lab coat or just a polo (my scars are on my upper arm so the polo covers...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 09-06-2011, 11:27 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 819
Posted By Derrota
Yeah, being bisexual doesn't justify anything he...

Yeah, being bisexual doesn't justify anything he did to you or your mother. I am bisexual and I wouldn't blame my sexual abuse on that whatsoever. To be honest, it sounds like your mother is lost...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 09-06-2011, 03:11 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 486
Posted By Derrota
You need to focus on taking one thing in at a...

You need to focus on taking one thing in at a time. It sucks that you got into a fight with your friend, but maybe you can talk to him/her and put it behind you. For finals, set up lots of study...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 08-06-2011, 11:21 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 558
Posted By Derrota
Take a deep breath. You will cut again after you...

Take a deep breath. You will cut again after you try to stop, the most important thing you can do is to try again. I know a year after I quit I had this moment where I lost control, but afterwards...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 08-06-2011, 11:17 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 536
Posted By Derrota
I'm not sure how it is in Austrailia, but when I...

I'm not sure how it is in Austrailia, but when I was 13-14 my school told my parents and notified the state. It could be totally different there though!

I know what it's like to fall under your...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 08-06-2011, 02:33 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 711
Posted By Derrota
I'm sure understanding it is one of the hardest...

I'm sure understanding it is one of the hardest part for parents, I know mine really didn't when I was a kid. It really turns into an addiction, just like alcohol or drugs. Even after you make the...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 08-06-2011, 02:24 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 328
Posted By Derrota
I know it's hard to take care of everyone while...

I know it's hard to take care of everyone while you are also taking care of yourself. But you have to remember that the most important person is yourself. Take to your friend, as PastExpiration...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 04-06-2011, 08:48 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 456
Posted By Derrota
Yeah, it's really a big chance. I've had friends...

Yeah, it's really a big chance. I've had friends who get super close to me after I tell them and try to help me with anything I need and I also had friends who didn't believe me and just walked...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 04-06-2011, 03:32 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 456
Posted By Derrota
I told my husband after like 2 weeks. Once it...

I told my husband after like 2 weeks. Once it started getting serious, I sat down with him and talked about it immediately.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 01-06-2011, 08:37 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 603
Posted By Derrota
I totally understand! I, myself, haven't cut in...

I totally understand! I, myself, haven't cut in almost 4 years but it is definitely an addiction its been so long I figured I'd be over it by now, but I have this incredible desire to cut sometimes...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 01-06-2011, 03:08 AM
Replies: 386
Views: 58,343
Posted By Derrota
This is the first time I read that, but it made...

This is the first time I read that, but it made me tear up!! I wish that could just flash in everyone's head right before they make their first cut. Maybe it would bring some insight to them.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 01-06-2011, 03:02 AM
Replies: 78
Views: 4,444
Posted By Derrota
It's definitely a brave and frightening...

It's definitely a brave and frightening experience. When you get there, I know you will have a lot of withdrawls to SH, but try to use this as an experience to quit. Use every day you are there to...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 01-06-2011, 02:57 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 421
Posted By Derrota
If you didn't go through sexual abuse, the only...

If you didn't go through sexual abuse, the only thing I can think of is if you don't like sex and don't like people in that area, maybe you feel like it's the one spot no one would ever notice your...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 01-06-2011, 02:52 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 584
Posted By Derrota
This is actually how I told my husband. When we...

This is actually how I told my husband. When we were first dating and it became serious, I didn't want him finding out a different way, so I sat down and said, "I need to show you something personal....
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 31-05-2011, 02:37 PM
Replies: 28,886
Views: 1,367,130
Posted By Derrota
I finally found someone who wanted to help me and...

I finally found someone who wanted to help me and completely understands, and I can't even open up to you!!!! ARRRRRGH I wish you could just read my mind.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 31-05-2011, 02:28 PM
Replies: 77
Views: 11,665
Posted By Derrota
1. List the ways that you self-harm <no tip...

1. List the ways that you self-harm <no tip sharing, be generic>
-Cutting my arm

2. How do these behaviors help you survive?
-It's my only stress reliever

3. How does this behavior give me a sense...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 21-04-2011, 02:29 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 369
Posted By Derrota
Feeling like I need it... *may trigger*

So I haven't cut in about 3 years now, which most people keep congradulating me on, but I don't think anyone should. I haven't actually did it, but I think about it every day. It's just getting...
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