On my birthday I recieved a bday card from my nana and grandpa. It turned my world upside down and triggered me so much... but then it would have either way so it was bound to happen...
Many years ago my grandpa abused me. After it happened I still had to go to see him... until a few yrs ago when my parents found out...
Every year for my bday and xmas i get a card from them... only they have stopped sending us (me and my bro) cards for xmas... so I wasnt sure if I would get anything for my bday...
If I did get a card I would have hated me as all contact has stopped but yet he is still sending me stuff... If I didnt get a card though then I would have felt bad... like I was worthless... stupid... that I screwed up their whole lives and they didnt like me anymore...
They sent me a card... it is in a pink envelope... I think that makes it worse for me...
Tomorrow I am due to go to a friends.. I will be with her for a few days... I told her weeks ago that she had to help me destroy it (I havnt opened it yet) but now I dont know.... he doesnt deserve this does he?? He and my nana both took the time to write and send it to me so shouldnt I at least open it??? But I am scared it will trigger me too much like it did last year on my bday... but then I will feel bad and guilty if I dont open it..
So confused.
Dont know what to do.
Any ideas of whether I should destroy it or not?? Ella is very loud and is wanting me to keep it and read it so that it will push me over the edge and I will finally be dead. Help