Hi all...
This is my first post in the veterans section. I hope I have the right one, as it's not triggering at all or anything. Anyways, since I'm an "older member," hopefully my post will be welcome.
Anyways, to get to my point.
So, nearly 4 months into my commited relationship, my fiancee's mother finally let us know that he was diagnosed with Pervasive Developmental Disorder as a young child. Apparently he was never told this, or at least not that he recalls.
I have to say that I was really unprepared for this. I know he was mentally ill, and disabled because of it, as am I. I do have some basic knowledge of Autism type disorders, but haven't done any extensive reading or anything.
However, I will say that after hearing this, it does make sense.
So I guess going forward, does anyone have any advice, tips, suggestions, etc, that might be helpful for us going forward in our relationship. We both really want to make this work. i do love him, and want to be with him, even though he drives me mad at times!!!!!
Thanks in advance! :)