i miss her so much it physically hurts

[chkymnky]

my best friend has just had to move suddenly,,, miles away. i can still see her but it wont be everyday like it was.
iv only known her 2 years but i feels like we known each other years!
we're like sisters.
no body understands.
ive been helping her move due to extreme cicumstances, during which ive lost a weeks wages, not finished a freinds database yet and wanted to move with her only to have friends ive known longer freak out at me!
i cant stop crying i miss her loads, ive finally found a friend iv always wanted only to lose her. and then have my friends saying why is she any better than us?
it hurts so bad

Oh *cuddles* having a best friend move sucks. I moved from my best friend a few years ago. I know how much it hurts. Hang in there, we've seen each other only a handle of times in the last few years. Just cherish the times you DO get to see her. Your not losing her, distance sucks, and makes it harder where you don't get to see her as much but you have the internet, phones, snail mail so you can keep in contact with her. *cuddles* Take care ok.

[shadow-light]

distance is har, but you haven't lost her. you're relationship will just have to adapt, and with time that will get easier. you can still talk via phone and internet, and when you do get to see her you will value those times so much more

as for your other friends... maybe tell them that you'd be upset if any of them moved? sort of to appease them...

[Lost_Girl]

I understand where your coming from I have moved about 13-14 times, yea I have acctully lost count at this point. Its hard and it sucks and its never fun.

[ARK]

Hi

Losing a friend is never easy so please don't beat yourself up about feeling low once she'd moved. Being that close to someone is a very special gift and the comfort and reassurance of that type of friendship is irreplacable.
On the other hand though, the fact that your friends are showing signs of jeslousy shows how much you mean to them.
If you weren't important in their lives, they wouldn't care about you feeling this way. Make sure you make time for them and let them know they're important to you too.
Try to concentrate on the positives, the friends you still have around you and ask them for their support.

The friend who has moved you haven't lost, she's just not on your doorstep anymore. When I left uni all my friends went back home, to just about every corner of England there is! But we're still tight and really close. Meeting up is that bit more special now and I never take them for granted because each meet up is so special.
Let this friend know you'll still be in touch and support her during her move, but also don't forget the friends you do have. If you're assuming they're not as close as your best friend, give them chance to be.
They can only be so if you let them in.

Pm me anytime if you need to ok...always here to listen.
ARK