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Old 23-12-2008, 08:22 PM   #1
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Triggering (Substance Abuse) - sthi

i am drnk agaiun
i can tstoip dtinking
im not even 18
i just rteal the drunk.
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Old 23-12-2008, 08:26 PM   #2
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ahjd my dad claledme an alcholuixc!
how cn i be one
when im not even 18







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Old 23-12-2008, 08:27 PM   #3
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I don't think it's dependant upon age...


do you know why you feel this need to drink?

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Old 23-12-2008, 08:29 PM   #4
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You don't have to be 18 to drink and have a problem drinking.
What is it you want help with? What has brought you to feel you need to drink, this time round?
Alcoholic is perhaps a little harsh of a comment to make.



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Old 23-12-2008, 08:30 PM   #5
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thsank you!
i am NOT AN ALCHOLIC.
I only sdrenk everyn ight.
if iwas driunking in the day.. then yeah. i mean some itmes i do drink ain the morning. ubt only when i can.,
anyways.
yeah i drank xcuase it stops my from lkilling myself.







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Old 23-12-2008, 08:34 PM   #6
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Helen sweetie not a criticism but in the long term the drink could well kill you too.*Hugs you tightly.*

im sorry your hurting sweetie.

Keep talking to us.

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Old 23-12-2008, 08:35 PM   #7
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alcoholic may be a little harsh... but you can be an alcoholic and only drink at night, it's when you feel the need to drink, doesn't even have to be everyday... but anyway, lets ignore that word and label.


in your first post you asked for help, how can we help you? do you talk to anyone about these feelings that are leading you down this road?

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Old 23-12-2008, 08:41 PM   #8
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i hoep it kills me.
im drinking abecausxeu im a BAD person
i want ot be good but i cant be







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Old 23-12-2008, 08:42 PM   #9
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you are not a bad person, really.


and a death through alcohol is an awful way to go

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Old 23-12-2008, 08:45 PM   #10
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why do you want to die? what happened sweetie?



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Old 23-12-2008, 08:47 PM   #11
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i agree with the others.Alcholic is a bit harsh and i dont see that was the best way your Dad could of handled things [however i am guessing he is quite worried for you right now so maybe got it a bit wrong in his worries.]

But it doesnt mean you may not have a drink problem sweetheart.i think even you must realise that cos you have took the very very brave step of posting in this section sweetheart.

i dont want to offend you with what im saying but things are getting more and more out of control and i just want you to get help....and to want that help...for yourself.

Helen your a good person.Youve helped me a lot and so many others im sure and thats only the start of the postive that i could say about you as a person.

Also i find it interesting though that at first you said you drink to stop you from killing yourself but then you said you hope it kills you.Did you notice that?

i understand i think what you mean but its odd how things work with this type of thing dont you think?ive just been thinking about it.

Sorry probably doesnt make much sense.



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Old 23-12-2008, 10:21 PM   #12
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My mother is an alcoholic and she only drinks at night.

I personally think you are an alcoholic Helen, you're drinking more&more&becoming dependent on it.

You may or may not believe me when I say you will die if you carry on. Anna has said you will. She may not have told you but doctors have told you(from what you've told me) you will die.

You are putting so much strain on your body Helen. So much strain. The b/ping, the cutting, the laxatives, this extreme drinking...

I love you Baby. Please... try and hold out until Anna gets you IP?

I'm going to sleep now as I'm ill and really feel terrible hence why I'm a bit snappy(I'm sorry baby), please text/call me if you need me.

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Old 24-12-2008, 07:05 AM   #13
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please honey. sarey is right. you are an alcoholic. talk to someone about it. don't let it kill you.



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Old 27-12-2008, 11:01 PM   #14
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hmm. I don't know.
My dad has banned me from drinking since i haven't been sober for 3 days unles I was asleep... but I just say its cause its christmas :/







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Old 27-12-2008, 11:38 PM   #15
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Helen is not an alcoholic......she may be abusing alcohol, but its temporary its not like shes permantly doing it, she doesnt live off it, I have met an alcoholic and helen is by far not one.

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Old 27-12-2008, 11:57 PM   #16
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I agree with Sammi.



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Old 28-12-2008, 05:21 PM   #17
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She is an alcoholic. I've met alcoholics, and I have a mother who is one, Helen is an alcoholic seeing as she is abusing alcohol, temporary or not.



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Old 28-12-2008, 05:25 PM   #18
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Old 28-12-2008, 05:31 PM   #19
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Guys i don't think arguing about whether or not Helen is an alcoholic is in anyway going to help her.

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Old 28-12-2008, 05:44 PM   #20
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FAO Sarey..::


A temporary misuse of alcohol to deal with current issues is alcohol dependency, not alcoholism itself.

There is a big difference and labeling Helen as an alcoholic is not only insulting in my opinion but also a very defeatist attitude to take, it's as if you have resigned it to be a never ending problem.

Whether your mother is an alcoholic is neither here nor there and it certainly doesn't mean that whatever you say becomes automatically correct. Evidently.



Sorry, but that had to be said because pinning the label 'alcoholic' on Helen is quite a damaging thing to do especially when it is an unfounded exaggeration.
You don't have to be an alcoholic to be dependent on drinking.



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