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Old 25-07-2010, 10:47 PM   #1
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New trigger labels.

Hi guys,

The community team have been discussing changes to the trigger labels that we currently have.

We've finalised this list, doing away with most of the labels and adding a few new ones.

We'd like your opinion on the new list, so you have until next Monday to tweak the list to your liking.

Thanks!

The following content has been hidden - Reason : List of new trigger labels

Open Topic Support Forums
General Support and Advice

Moving Forward
Contains SI
Contains ED
Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse

Serious Discussion and Advice
Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse

Ranting / Venting Forum
This is a ranting board. All threads may contain graphic and unsettling content. Enter at your own risk.

Specific support, advice and recovery forums
Self-Injury Discussion and Support
Positive recovery post

Eating Disorder Support and Binging, Overeating & Related Issues Support
Positive recovery post
Contains SI

Substance Abuse Forum
Contains OD
Contains ED
Contains alcohol
Contains illicit drugs
Contains medication
Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse

Grief and Trauma Support Forum

Abuse and Bullying Support
Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse
Contains bullying

Vets

Veterans Support
Contains SI
Contains ED
Contains OD
Contains Suicide
Contains Abuse
Contains Sexual Abuse

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Old 25-07-2010, 10:51 PM   #2
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Old 25-07-2010, 11:01 PM   #3
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I know it's not widely used, but I'm wondering what people think about posts that contain very graphic material? Would that just be best in a hide box... or not even that?

(I think the list is very good; a lot better).

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Old 25-07-2010, 11:03 PM   #4
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Old 25-07-2010, 11:09 PM   #5
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Old 25-07-2010, 11:32 PM   #6
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Old 25-07-2010, 11:56 PM   #7
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still seems like there are too many, sorry.

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Old 25-07-2010, 11:59 PM   #8
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I have a few things. Adding/removing in list (will be clear what is from me or not)

The following content has been hidden - Reason : List of new trigger labels

Open Topic Support Forums
General Support and Advice

Moving Forward
Contains SI
Contains ED
Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse
Contains SI/ED
Contains SI/Abuse


Serious Discussion and Advice
Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse
Contains SI
Contains OD
Contains Suicide


Ranting / Venting Forum
This is a ranting board. All threads may contain graphic and unsettling content. Enter at your own risk.
(so this is in place of the "trig all"?)

Specific support, advice and recovery forums
Self-Injury Discussion and Support
Positive recovery post
Graphic SI (or something similar)

Eating Disorder Support and Binging, Overeating & Related Issues Support
Positive recovery post
Contains SI
Graphic ED

Substance Abuse Forum
Contains OD
Contains ED
Contains alcohol
Contains illicit drugs
Contains medication

Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse

Grief and Trauma Support Forum
Contains SI

Abuse and Bullying Support
Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse
Contains bullying

Vets
Veterans Support
Contains SI
Contains ED
Contains OD
Contains Suicide
Contains Abuse
Contains Sexual Abuse

Alternatively, couldn't we just have all the labels available in all the forums with triggering content??


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Old 26-07-2010, 12:09 AM   #9
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Woah, loads of people already voting on the poll! Insane.

ETA something productive: I don't think the site needs a SI label... Because I think that can be assumed. It's an SI site, why need a label? And OD falls either into SI or suicide, either way I don't know if it needs it's own label. And graphic strikes me as similar to 'slightly' or 'majorly' triggering - subjective. I don't find a lot of things graphic that other people do, and vice versa.


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Old 26-07-2010, 12:39 AM   #10
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I don't like the "contains abuse" or "contains sexual abuse". Surely sexual abuse is abuse, and therefore falls under the "abuse" lable.




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Old 26-07-2010, 12:43 AM   #11
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I have a few things. Adding/removing in list (will be clear what is from me or not)

The following content has been hidden - Reason : List of new trigger labels

Open Topic Support Forums
General Support and Advice

Moving Forward
Contains SI
Contains ED
Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse
Contains SI/ED
Contains SI/Abuse


Serious Discussion and Advice
Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse
Contains SI
Contains OD
Contains Suicide


Ranting / Venting Forum
This is a ranting board. All threads may contain graphic and unsettling content. Enter at your own risk.
(so this is in place of the "trig all"?)

Specific support, advice and recovery forums
Self-Injury Discussion and Support
Positive recovery post
Graphic SI (or something similar)

Eating Disorder Support and Binging, Overeating & Related Issues Support
Positive recovery post
Contains SI
Graphic ED

Substance Abuse Forum
Contains OD
Contains ED
Contains alcohol
Contains illicit drugs
Contains medication

Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse

Grief and Trauma Support Forum
Contains SI

Abuse and Bullying Support
Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse
Contains bullying

Vets
Veterans Support
Contains SI
Contains ED
Contains OD
Contains Suicide
Contains Abuse
Contains Sexual Abuse

Alternatively, couldn't we just have all the labels available in all the forums with triggering content??
Serious discussion doesn't need SI, this is a SI site and really you should be expecting that SI will be in most threads in all forums. (IMO) Doesn't need suicide either, as its a 'serious' forum.

Graphic, again IMO, isn't really needed as a] it's hard to define graphic, and b] you can't really go too graphic with what you're saying, as per the rules.

& Chels, I sort've agree with you, now that you've said that.

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Old 26-07-2010, 01:00 AM   #12
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Originally Posted by insanitylives View Post
I have a few things. Adding/removing in list (will be clear what is from me or not)

The following content has been hidden - Reason : List of new trigger labels

Open Topic Support Forums
General Support and Advice

Moving Forward
Contains SI
Contains ED
Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse
Contains SI/ED
Contains SI/Abuse

Serious Discussion and Advice
Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse
Contains SI
Contains OD
Contains Suicide

Ranting / Venting Forum
This is a ranting board. All threads may contain graphic and unsettling content. Enter at your own risk.
(so this is in place of the "trig all"?)

Specific support, advice and recovery forums
Self-Injury Discussion and Support
Positive recovery post
Graphic SI (or something similar)

Eating Disorder Support and Binging, Overeating & Related Issues Support
Positive recovery post
Contains SI
Graphic ED

Substance Abuse Forum
Contains OD
Contains ED
Contains alcohol
Contains illicit drugs
Contains medication

Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse

Grief and Trauma Support Forum
Contains SI

Abuse and Bullying Support
Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse
Contains bullying

Vets
Veterans Support
Contains SI
Contains ED
Contains OD
Contains Suicide
Contains Abuse
Contains Sexual Abuse

Alternatively, couldn't we just have all the labels available in all the forums with triggering content??
I'd like to know why you would keep alcohol in substance abuse but not illict drugs/abuse of meds?




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Old 26-07-2010, 01:02 AM   #13
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Well then does the abuse forum really need "Contains Abuse" tag?

I understand sexual abuse, as that's not in everyone's posts and can be very triggering to some people.

Serious isn't dedicated to SI, which is why I suggest it. In the same way the ED forum gets a SI tag.

edit: griddlebone, because I didn't see it. Blond moment.

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Old 26-07-2010, 01:37 AM   #14
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I like the idea of the hide box. I am not sure how to use one or make one but it does seem like a good idea.

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Old 26-07-2010, 02:40 AM   #15
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I like the idea of the hide box. I am not sure how to use one or make one but it does seem like a good idea.

In the advance editor there's a button that says "hide", it will prompt you to put in a reason for the content being hidden.

You can also do it like this
[hide=REASON HERE]whatever you're hiding[/hide]

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Old 26-07-2010, 02:52 AM   #16
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Old 26-07-2010, 03:09 AM   #17
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I don't like having the overdose one. It's weird. Doesn't it fall under the self harm or substance abuse label? Can I get an explanation for it please?

Also, I can't see a need for all of these:
Contains alcohol
Contains illicit drugs
Contains medication

In the substance abuse forum, we don't have trigger labels for different methods of self harm, do we need them for different methods of substance abuse?

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Old 26-07-2010, 03:20 AM   #18
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I like that it's been simplified, but I think it could be stripped down a bit more...

The following content has been hidden - Reason : List of new trigger labels

Open Topic Support Forums
General Support and Advice

Moving Forward
Contains SI
Contains ED
Contains abuse
/Contains sexual abuse

Serious Discussion and Advice
/Contains abuse
/Contains sexual abuse
+All threads may contain graphic and unsettling content. Enter at your own risk.

Ranting / Venting Forum
This is a ranting board. All threads may contain graphic and unsettling content. Enter at your own risk. <-- This, I like

Specific support, advice and recovery forums
Self-Injury Discussion and Support
Positive recovery post <-- Again, I like this

Eating Disorder Support and Binging, Overeating & Related Issues Support
Positive recovery post
Contains SI

Substance Abuse Forum
+Positive recovery post
/Contains OD
Contains ED
/Contains alcohol
/Contains illicit drugs
/Contains medication
Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse

Grief and Trauma Support Forum

Abuse and Bullying Support
/Contains abuse
Contains sexual abuse
/Contains bullying

Vets

Veterans Support
Contains SI
Contains ED
/Contains OD
Contains Suicide
Contains Abuse
/Contains Sexual Abuse


Certain things are to be expected in certain areas, as other people have said. For example, if reading the bullying section, it's reasonable to expect talk about bullying. Same for talk of abusing medication or alcohol in the substance abuse section. Surely we should all be using our common sense & just not reading those areas when we're vulnerable to being triggered?

Also, I agree about the OD trigger, I never really saw the specific need for it, particularly where there's a suicide trigger


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Old 26-07-2010, 03:26 AM   #19
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I like the fact that a bullying label is there, it may encouage more people to post on that topic by making them feel more validated/included

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Old 26-07-2010, 03:46 AM   #20
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^ My apologies, I misread it - didn't see the word abuse before bullying. I've edited to remove abuse as well as bullying - I wasn't belittling bullying, just think it's something you should expect to read in that forum.



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