So I want to know general opinions on sexual encounters with more than one partner? Are there certain circumstances? Is it acceptable in a relationship? And how many people would you, personally, feel comfortable having sexual intercourse with at once?
I think its totally acceptable, in what ever relationship weather it be dating or friendship as long as all participents are comerfortable with it !
I personally would not engage in it at all ! personal reasons !
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but if all the participants are comfortable with it then meh, go for it...
my boyfriend has asked me several times in the past if I'd be comfortable with a threesome
I told him that if he found the third person then fair enough, knowing full well that he's unlikely to ever get up the courage to ask someone lol.
personally I think just one at a time is best...
Although i've had plenty of male partners ask if id have a threesome... and I always say "yep, if its another bloke!"
This seems to put them off...
"I have a room for life at the home for the chronically groovy!" - Sgt Floyd Pepper
I'd be up for a threesome in theory. However, even when I'm not in a relationship, I have a strange sense of loyalty to the person I'm sleeping with and feel bad sleeping with anyone else at the time, so I don't think I could go through with it.
i voted for just one. thats not to say i havent had sexual encounters with more than one person at the same time because i have in my wild days. but im happy with the man im with now (who incidentally i first slept with in a foursome - the only one i ever had) so other people are of no interest to me.
"When I want your opinion, I'll beat it out of you" - Dr Samuel Loomis
When I was younger I had a couple of threesomes, mainly as a way of exploring sexuality. It was fun, mainly because I was in the middle getting all the attention really. I sort of had one last year, and just completely wigged out, it was odd. Maybe I've sort of grown up into enjoying just my partner. I also once had a really odd, drunken foursome, with another bi girl, a straight guy and a gay guy. It was somewhat amusing, and still is to an extent.
So who knows, in theory I'm up for anything. And I think if we stumbled into an orgy, we wouldn't say no because well, it'd be a laugh. But I'm not exactly searching for the opportunity.
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Although i've had plenty of male partners ask if id have a threesome... and I always say "yep, if its another bloke!"
This seems to put them off...
haha i bet. is it me or do all guys have some secret fantasy about 2 girls together? but when it's 2 guys, that shuts them up!
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i voted for just one. thats not to say i havent had sexual encounters with more than one person at the same time because i have in my wild days. but im happy with the man im with now (who incidentally i first slept with in a foursome - the only one i ever had) so other people are of no interest to me.
Isn't a foursome just....confusing? like, how do you know what to do to whom and when?? I'm just wondering as obviously never had one before...
I think, if all persons involved are willing and happy, then just do whatever you want.
Even as the stone of the fruit must break
that its heart may stand in the sun,
so must you know pain.
There are only two ways in which one can live their life. One is as though nothing is a miracle, the other is as though everything is.
it was more kind of two couples...but i had sexual contact with the other female too. the boys didnt really get involved and i wasnt doing anything with her partner.
it was really just a drug fuelled mistake. im not very proud of myself. i was going through a difficult time in my life and i was abusing alcohol, drugs and myself. the threesome i had also took place during that difficult time.
i dont regret it as such because it may have opened doors for me and my now partner. maybe if i had done things differently i wouldnt have him or my daughter so i look at it more as an experience that im not particularly proud of.
"When I want your opinion, I'll beat it out of you" - Dr Samuel Loomis
I must say now I would only be comfortable with a single sexual partner, I have had multiple sex partner encounters and I think unless you are really comfortable it is hard I felt horrible afterwards, but was young at the time and generally quite promiscusus
But I being poor have only my dreams, I have spread my dreams under your feet ; tread softly as you tread on my dreams.
We are all in the gutter but some of us are looking at the stars.
It can be fun. So long as everyone is comfortable with it.
Would i do it again? idk...
Not going to go out of my way to set it up or anything.
We're both quite happy with just each other tbh.
