Alot of my firends when the subject in school came up were all like eww n its wrong and stuff .. but it really aint .. i mean it natural and should be accepted ...
Last edited by Dreaming. : 28-03-2009 at 06:40 PM.
Reason: Bordering on sexually explicit/uneccessary. Sorry, and thank you :) x
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Personally on this topic, I masturbate, but I'd not openly discuss it with people unless it was like, a boyfriend or something. Why would I talk about something like that? It's like an intimate, private thing? :/ Unless someone wanted advice or something, then I'd talk about it, but I'd never say, "So, I got off last night to this sweet video..." or something like that, just to start conversation.
Because even the sweetest angel has a sadistic side.
Because woman have class and the ability to not talk about wanking in everyday conversation.
oh, really?
i talk about it most days...
amongst uni friends, housemates, work friends.
it's a fairly common thing for me to discuss...
but i'm rude and obnoxious, so yes.
I have to say, I'm somewhat shocked by the lack of knowledge regarding the loss of virginity...
It's one of the most basic things we learned in sex ed, it surprises me that others don't know.
Anyway, masturbation been mentioned within my friends, but we never have discussions about it, as such.
You aren't a freak for not doing it. You just don't want to do it, which is fair enough.
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I tell you what isn't appropriate? A girl in my class at uni asking "Just to get to know people, who's put something up their bum here?" and then moving on to say "Anyone done anal sex? Oh I love it!"
The hidden stuff above I feel is private.
OMG just laught so much in the libary lol cant believe she asked that sorry im wetting my self i can picture it to heheh
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I couldn't when she asked either! She talks about that kind of stuff to me all the times. It's like "Hey I enjoy sharing some stuff, but that's just too private for me!" =P
I find that is the kind of stuff that comes up when you're drunk and is either forgotten about or never mentioned again :P
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I'm so uptight prissy and modest that when I was at a rock and gem show and saw quartz phalluses for sale, I totally looked away.
Other people's sex life isn't my business. But I don't want to know about what people are doing in the toilet either.
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I personally am very interested in other people's sex lives, as long as they're comfortable talking about it! But my mom IS an Intimacy and Sexuality counselor, so... I guess it's how I'm brought up.
It's perfectly normal for women to either masturbate or not masturbate. It's up to you whether you like it or not and whether you feel the "need" to do so or not.
Very interesting thread which I can't believe I've only just read!
My friends I made at sixth form are quite reserved about sex-talk. I mean, we talk about having sex sometimes but we don't really talk specifics or anything.
My uni friends are very very different. We talk about sex, masturbation, toys, everything. If I'm honest, I'm the least open out of my uni friends and I'm pretty open. But then, the three people I'm living with had several threesomes last year (one in my bed when I was staying at my boyfs!!!) so they can all be very open with each other as they've seen each other naked etc. And we can all tell when one of us wants to be 'left alone' in their room for a bit. Lol!
I talk to my boyfriend about it quite a lot though (well, I tell him I've been watching porn or masturbating, not details - see below paragraph). He quite enjoys hearing about it and we watch porn and stuff together sometimes. But that's with my boyfriend and that's different.
I own a vibrator, but I rarely use it. I find it doesn't really give me the pleasure I think it should, and the pleasure I can get through other ways of masturbating. I have this complex that what I'm doing isn't the same as everyone else (trust me, this isn't just a 'normal' thing, I have never heard of anyone doing what I do) but it gives me pleasure so. . . I lie to my boyfriend about how I masturbate as well, and when he asks me to do it in front of him, I do it the 'normal' way rather than my usual way. (We've been together for 2 years, maybe I should explain to him?)
Have ended up writing quite a lot about this. Lol! Was only meant to be a quick reply.
OMG! Have just remembered something that happened last week - I was masturbating and had just finished when my housemate knocked on the door. I knew if I didn't respond he would just open the door so I answered, he asked what I'd been doing (I knew my cheeks were flushed, I was breathing quite heavily, and was under the duvet at 3pm looking embarrased). I couldn't think so I just went "Errr . . . . nothing!" and he started laughing. I went even redder and then he got all awkward which made it worse.
And in first year I left my vibrator out in the bathroom (we had en-suite rooms) and forgot it was there. Then people came up into my room, someone found it and started waving it around then hit someone in the face with it. Soooooo embarrassing, especilaly as this was only in the 2nd term so I hadn't really known people that long!
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7th July 2007
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LOL at hitting someone in the face with your vibrator!
i wont be rude and ask you what you do thats different, but whatever works for you. maybe you should discuss it with your bloke, u never know he might like the idea.
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