The Safe Room - Page 3269

bobbiwibble · 03-04-2009, 03:12 PM

awesome :D see that's good, shes going to help you, she will be so nice to you and she will help you make yourself feel better. VERY well done for telling her. thats the hardest part

x.ILY.x · 03-04-2009, 03:19 PM

i dnt like the sun i get hot cus i have to keep my jumper on :(

shadow-light · 03-04-2009, 03:25 PM

ah... I've bought some camoflague make-up as only got scars on arm...

can't wear shorts... but that's not so bad

bobbiwibble · 03-04-2009, 03:26 PM

wear cotton long sleeved tshirts? or things with baggy arms and then the air can go up them and you wont get as hot :)

could i possibly have some hugs? i cant seem to stop crying. i said lots of things to my best friend/ boyfriend so he could contradict me. that he hates me, that he never loved me, that he blames me for what happened at christmas, that he wishes I would just go away and die. and he didnt contradict me. there was a long pause, and then he said 'sorry' :(
he was the last person to have faith in me

shadow-light · 03-04-2009, 03:29 PM

*hugs*

maybe he just thought there was no point in contracting you... my boyfriends done that before... said there was no point in contradicting me as I've already got it set in my head and he's not going to be able to change it...

bobbiwibble · 03-04-2009, 03:32 PM

really? :( that's rubbish though, I needed to hear that I wasn't a horrible horrible person!

I went offline on msn and he thinks I've blocked him. He hasnt bothered calling or messaging me though. Do you have any idea what I should do?

shadow-light · 03-04-2009, 03:34 PM

I don;t know... maybe need to give him some time...

bobbiwibble · 03-04-2009, 03:35 PM

ok... I will try. it's hard though :( I'm so needy at the moment

could I maybe have another hug? I'll give you a cookie

shadow-light · 03-04-2009, 03:41 PM

I know it's hard... I once had to have 2 weeks without any contact at all when we were having difficulties... nearly killed me... was awful...

but it can be done.
do you have anyone else you can speak to? any support?

*bg hugs*

bobbiwibble · 03-04-2009, 04:11 PM

not really, to be honest :( I used to talk to him for at least 3 hours a day and saw him 4 times a week on average. the last couple of weeks I've only been seeing him twice a week and he's always ratty and distracted. its horrible :(
im just gonna stay on here all day

shadow-light · 03-04-2009, 04:12 PM

oh :( not so good...

well I'll probaby be about all day, so will be about if you want someone to speak to

bobbiwibble · 03-04-2009, 04:31 PM

thank you :( sorry I'm trying to be brave :(

shadow-light · 03-04-2009, 04:32 PM

not need to be sorry. it's understandably difficult for you right now

Spoons · 03-04-2009, 05:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bobbiwib

it snowed a bit in Kent last night :)

:( all canterbury got was fog :(

shadow-light · 03-04-2009, 05:23 PM

*curls back up in corner*

pixiedust · 03-04-2009, 06:02 PM

*sits*

shadow-light · 03-04-2009, 06:03 PM

*waves*

pixiedust · 03-04-2009, 06:13 PM

*waves back*

x.ILY.x · 03-04-2009, 07:24 PM

... how r u guys

little one · 03-04-2009, 07:51 PM

*pokes head round the door* is i okay to come in here?