I wank. All my friends know I wank. I don't really care about the taboo that surrounds it. That, along with the taboo of being a self harmer and a bisexual is part of me and part of my life and I've learnt to live with it.
I don't really understand why there's such a stigma around females masturbating, since it's perfectly natural and we just don't have as much to play with as men do.
i went through pretty precocious puberty so i was fully developed by around the age of 10 so probably started around that time. i found it tough because all of my school friends were still very much little girls who were still squirming at the thought of sex so i felt pretty alone. it was around this time that i also began to seriously suspect i was a lesbian as well.
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Change has a considerable psychological impact on the human mind.
To the fearful it is threatening because it means that things may get worse.
To the confident it is inspiring because the challenge exists to make things better.
To the hopeful it is encouraging because things may get better.
With the whole "stretching thing" it's going to hurt even if she uses a vibrator! Tell her to use lube and for her boyfriend to go slow. Also tell her to have sex with him when she's ready. ;)
with the whole stretching thing... I thought that the first time pain thing was due to the hymen breaking... and it doesn't matter how "big" the guy is, he's not going to be larger than a babys head... so surely "stretching" would't make any difference anyway...
You can buy cheap vibrators for under £10.
failing that.. tell her to go out and buy an assortment of vegetables and put condoms over them.
why would she want to borrow it when a) its been inside you and b) the batteries leaked and it probably has battery acid on it.
and.. she shouldnt really need to stretch herself.. i mean, babies come out of there.. it stretchs quite well anyway, they just need to take their time and use lots of lube.
Agreed.
Someone said make sure he goes slow. That's what me & my ex did. It was fine.
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personally it doesnt bother me i mean if someone (normally a guy) asks about it im not gunna go all red and act like ive never heard of a girl doing it. i remember at school that the girls talked about it more than guy, it coulda been because i didnt exactly go to the best school in the world (botten 3 in my county no one knew whether out school was 3rd worst, 2nd worst or just worst)
i guess though its different for different people though because ive always taken a very much mans view of mastibation and sex but i know girls who have gone to sleep overs and have be caught doing it lol.
with the whole stretching thing... I thought that the first time pain thing was due to the hymen breaking... and it doesn't matter how "big" the guy is, he's not going to be larger than a babys head... so surely "stretching" would't make any difference anyway...
It is. The vagina is obviously going to be "tight" when you first have sex. Plus it still hurts after the first time for a few more times. It's not like "push, push, finished" and then it won't hurt again.
Actually, I wish I'd used my vibrator more before I lost my virignity to "stretch" so to speak, because it bloody hurt! But also so did using a vibrator the first time, and that thing was tiny on the grand scheme of them... so yeah. It makes sense. But get your own, it's not exactly hygienic to share them.
Wake me up before I change again
Remind me the story that I won't get insane
Tell me why it's always the same
Explain me the reason why I'm so much in pain.
It is. The vagina is obviously going to be "tight" when you first have sex. Plus it still hurts after the first time for a few more times. It's not like "push, push, finished" and then it won't hurt again.
This is very true. But I also find if I go a while without sex (damn ye distance relationships...) it hurts briefly, and takes a minute to get used to it. So maybe my body's weird, or I'm built small or my boy is massive or whatever. So it's most definately not just the hymen.
As for them getting lost, shadow-light... I highly doubt it's possible, since your cervix would kind of get in the way of that. And if it did, you can use your muscles to push it out, a bit like a teeny weeny baby :P if it's anal toys, that's a completely different matter.
Wake me up before I change again
Remind me the story that I won't get insane
Tell me why it's always the same
Explain me the reason why I'm so much in pain.
well i know it can be muscles too... I have a slight "prolem" with my pelvic floor muscles (scariest doctors appointment ever lol) that means that it hurts about 60% of the time is I have sex... as they sort of tighten and clench which results in spasms...
There's no way in hell anything's going to get lost or stuck up there. Even with crazy spasms, there's nowhere for it to go but back out again. And you'll probably have your own lubrication so it'll be easy to get out.
I fear silly things I know lol, but it's what I keep thinking... not sure would ever use one anyway, but it's all I can think when people talk about them... lol
i don't have a problem with it, but i don't really do it myself.
but i absolutely HATE the waysome guys talk about it, like on the school bus they all do, and some of the things i really don't want to know, like who they think of, and the times they were caught doing it on residential school trips!!
i get all embarrassed when people start talking to me about it
lol
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Aww bless yah, it wouldn't get stuck. The muscles in your vagina wouldn't allow it to get stuck. Plus you're vagina isn't that deep anyways. I think it's only 4 or 5 inches deep. ;)
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If you aren't comfortable with using a vibrator and you want to masterbate you could always DIY and use your fingers. ;)
Also I once had an experience that after sex I bled a little bit. This happened after over a year of loosing my virginity so I'm not sure why this happened.
i went through pretty precocious puberty so i was fully developed by around the age of 10 so probably started around that time. i found it tough because all of my school friends were still very much little girls who were still squirming at the thought of sex so i felt pretty alone. it was around this time that i also began to seriously suspect i was a lesbian as well.
I'm exactly the same.
I can't erm.. 'get off' on anything except my husband or lesbian porn, straight porn doesn't do it for me.
I dont talk about it with friends but I've been in Anne Summers with friends and its pretty much an unwritten known fact that we all do it!
Sometimes I feel guilty about it and that I should be telling my husband because I feel bad about it but I guess thats more of a psychological thing really.
