i think it just depends on the relationship and the couples definition of cheating. To jack is classes as cheating, but i have spoken to others and they dont veiw it as cheating.
piffilipiancrew - I know Staines! My parents live near there =) Weirdly enough though, the uni is nowhere near there ^_-
kitkat - Oh a tattoo? What design were you thinking of? Why not take some images of the kind of thing you like and get the tattooist to draw something up for you?
For those doubts that swirl all around us
For those lives that tear at the seams
We know… we’re not what we’ve seen
For this dance we’ll move with each other
There ain’t no other step than one foot
Right in front of the other
That sounds very nice Skye. How are y'all doing? How is Kathryn? WE've been quiet and calm mostly lately. guess we are still processing things with papa and all the other (aly;s side of family) stuff. Hiding hasn't been out in quite a while but think she is aware of things. Sadie and me have been handling everything the last week or so. everyone is so quiet and calm.. Guess they are actually listening to what I tell them about life and such,Sarah isn't reallly out much not since new yrs for any long period of time.
*shrug*
guess we have been okay. someone (probably Hiding) always worries when everyone is calm and quiet. She starts in denial thinking.. She worries waaay too much though. Peacefulness doesn't always mean things are wrong or even different. Everyone is still here. I think most of us are just resting right now.
anyhow. Hope everyone is doing okay. sorry we haven't been talking much.. it is difficult to put things into words lately. Karma
A thousand mile journey starts with the first step
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We're okay thanks, it's been pretty quiet, I don't know where anyone is. I'm guessing they're in other systems, but those systems are off-limits. Well, I can't access them. Kathryn's okay, she keeps coming out for a bit and then I come out, not sure why but she said she's a bit suspicious... She believes it's other people who make her crazy (not people on here, people she knows) so she doesn't post... I don't know, it's something like that. I think I'm out mostly so that Kathryn doesn't start denial thinking either.
How are you all?
Don't worry about it, we have difficulty putting thoughts into words as well (:
Hello Skye. Well glad to you a ll are alright and Kathryn is too. Understand the denial thing, Hiding has plenty as well. We got a little happy point today. Our friend's husband who was severely depressed and doing odd things for nearly a yr now ,I think, came into our work today and omg he is like 100% better. happy and healthy looking , coversating easily and just overall better. We were so happy for him and our friend we could have cried. seriously he is like a different person. we messaged our friend telling her how happy we are for them that she has her husband back and her nightmare is over.
So glad something good has happened for people we care about.=)
anyhow, we are doing alright. Mixed emotions about many things, missing papa, upset and somewhat angry over our abusive ex husband having a new daughter born the other day and *shrug* it is hard to explain .. especially for me since I don't really personally have feelings.. I can just sense the heaviness and weight of the others' feelings. anyhow, I have managed to keep us numb and happy seeming today.
I am a little concerned about how Hididng will remember this time with losing her grandpa tho. She may not remember much since she hasn't really been out to mourn and grieve much so far, but then again we still haven't had a service for him yet.
hi all. We hope you are all ok We are a bit unstable and stressed right now, struggling with a bit of an ED relapse and just generally with coping with life.
A thousand mile journey starts with the first step
Join Date: Oct 2009
I am currently:
Hey Hazel, sorry to hear you're struggling at the moment, you can always PM us if you feel the need.
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Was doing some alphabetizing of this HUGE folder at work placement last night... Anyway Ayka got frustrated because there was so much so she broke the folder :/ she also likes to get things right first time round and cos I was too tired to concentrate on it she got really mad. Still, it's nice to know that she hasn't disappeared for good.
Just finished off the alphabetizing in record time because I came up with a better strategy so it would be done quicker, feeling a great sense of achievement :D
hi im allie im 14 and bi
i also have a couple alters
mikey is 15 and he's well gay
lilly is four and childish
unknown or UK we dont know how old it is aor even much about it
DL her maturity varys often and we have no idea how old she is but we love her to peices
Welcome to the thread.
Thanks for sharing about your others.
How do you generally "get along" with them?
Do you have any professional support with this?
Hazel - sorry to hear things are tough right now. I'm thinking of you.
I'm just now beginning to get over my cold (it's been one heck of a beginning of a new year for me). Also still adjusting to being on meds again, but I'm taking them diligently. Looking forward to the semester beginning on Monday.
well mikey is very very sweet and kind
and lilly is shy
UK is well quit and very reserved and doesnt talk much at all
and DL is well fun lol
we all getalong ok i guess
