lol yall need to to go to the messages board inside the greving forum and read Hiding's letter to her papa. it is so freaking funny. but that was his sense of humor and he woulda appreciated it. lol it made us all feel a bit better when she wrote him that.. just hope he heard/saw/read it somehow .. lol me and karma have pretty much running the show lately.. or trying to.. sarah sneaks out when home and hiding sneaks out and cries sometimes but we are functioning overall pretty well considering i think.. seems better than when we lost our aunt and our granny for somereason.. ( guess because we actually saw first hand how much poor papa suffered) *shrug* take care SADIE
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Hi.
Sorry I feel I have no right to post here because I haven't in a long time and I think people hate me.
I am confused because I don't notice the others anymore and I don't feel them fully taking over. It makes me doubt my diagnosis.
Does anyone else get this?
A thousand mile journey starts with the first step
Join Date: Oct 2009
I am currently:
Sadie - I'm sure that he's read it and he appreaciates it very much (: maybe you're coping better because you know how to deal with it and because now you know that he's not suffering anymore?
Facet - You're always welcome to post here, just because you haven't in a long time doesn't mean you shouldn't. We know how you feel because recently I'm the only one that's been around... I don't know where the others are.
maybe you are right skye. it just seems unreal still too.cause the past yr now we have only seen him once every few weeks, which is what makes it so hard on my parents cuz well he visited every sunday.=/
Facet- hon youre always welcome here. wb. Hope you are doing alright. SADIE
I am confused because I don't notice the others anymore and I don't feel them fully taking over. It makes me doubt my diagnosis.
Does anyone else get this?
It's good to see you Megan, hope you've been doing ok.
Sometimes I have what I call 'quiet' periods, where the dissociative symptoms ease up a bit, and I don't hear the voices so much, and I don't lose time. I don't have a diagnosis of DID, but when I go through a quiet period, it really makes me feel like the rest of the time I'm making it all up.
For those doubts that swirl all around us
For those lives that tear at the seams
We know… we’re not what we’ve seen
For this dance we’ll move with each other
There ain’t no other step than one foot
Right in front of the other
It's a relief to hear that people can relate. I just feel like a fraud when that happens. Though since I've written this and on another forum and in the system's journal, I feel them closer, can hear them talking. Huh. I guess I had to unlock communication.
I am very drained. Things have been crazy, but I'm surviving. How are you?
I have times like that too... periods of a few days or whatever when there are basically no symptoms at all, they are confsing and fairly unnearving... eventually though it always all comes back
I did! I finished the fall semester with one A and two Bs, which is exciting. I'm still in good academic standing. I should be done with community college this upcoming fall and graduate with my A.S., and then I can transfer to a four year university to get my Bachelor's in Psychology. The spring semester starts next week, so I'm a little nervous.
Thanks for asking!
Those are really good grades, well done =D and good luck for this semester! Which uni do you want to do psychology at? I'm doing a degree in psych too right now, and it's awesome; such an interesting subject =)
For those doubts that swirl all around us
For those lives that tear at the seams
We know… we’re not what we’ve seen
For this dance we’ll move with each other
There ain’t no other step than one foot
Right in front of the other
GMU is near washington isn't it? I think we used to know someone who went there... they had to pay rediculas fees, but I think that was due to them going there from england.
Hopefully we will be going to durham or newcastle in september. Just waiting for a referance to be written
serious question - if an alter sleeps with someone other than the hosts parter does it mean that the host cheated on their partner?
I don't think it means the host cheated. Although I think someone needs to ask the alter why they did that, to see if there's a way to arrange that it doesn't happen again.
A question that just sparked off in my brain - if a partner sleeps with an alter, do you think that counts as the partner cheating on the host? Does it make a difference if they didn't know the alter was 'out'? Does anyone think that partners shouldn't sleep with someone's alters, even if the alter is adult and the host is ok with it?
For those doubts that swirl all around us
For those lives that tear at the seams
We know… we’re not what we’ve seen
For this dance we’ll move with each other
There ain’t no other step than one foot
Right in front of the other
A question that just sparked off in my brain - if a partner sleeps with an alter, do you think that counts as the partner cheating on the host? Does it make a difference if they didn't know the alter was 'out'? Does anyone think that partners shouldn't sleep with someone's alters, even if the alter is adult and the host is ok with it?
I had a discussion with jack about that a few months ago. He thinks that it would be cheating. In the past we have switched during things before and he has realised, but also in the past alters have inisiated things with him and he hasn't realised that it wasn't me, and afterwards he's felt awaful, apparently he felt that he'd cheated on me
