the letter had no explanation or anything... it just said that as of the 18th of November I was no longer going to receive it. Going to ring them in the morning and see if I can get any more information
Yeah give them a ring - I know when they tried to stop my ex's housing benefits they specified it was because my student loan was counted as household income and they also attached a whole bundle of papers showing how they'd calculated it. So if they won't explain why, chances are you can successfully appeal the decision.
For those doubts that swirl all around us
For those lives that tear at the seams
We know… we’re not what we’ve seen
For this dance we’ll move with each other
There ain’t no other step than one foot
Right in front of the other
A thousand mile journey starts with the first step
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Sorry to hear about that Hazel ): it's so annoying that they didnt actually explain why they're stopping it... Hope you get some kind of response out of them when you phone them.
Vaxir - I guess it's just that over the years we've always had negative things about ourselves drilled into our mind, so it probably just sunk in.
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Had breakfast, I'm gonna let Ayka control what we eat but only up to a certain point (as in stop us eating unhealthily and me binging, which I have a tendency to do).
ends up they are stopping it as I haven't sent a proof of address :/ apparently the loan agreement that I sent with the original claim (not to mention that fact that I received their letter) was not good enough :/
Felling rejected as we got kicked off another forum.
It was the only forum we found so far that sarah was welcome to CHAT as herself and accepted. she can post here and that is nice.. but she likes to chat and make friends.. she get very lonleyl being our only little. i think that is what hurts most... how hurt she is feeling.. she is hiding in her room crying.
she isnt allowed to chat in ryl chat cuz its not all did or ddnos in chat here and she is misunderstood and it confuses many. and the same with another mental health chat we visit.. she isnt allowed to chat there either.. she is so lonely.
we were banned off that other place cuz all i can think is hiding musta have registerd there with her email address before.. before she knew about us. and well im starting to really regret how i influenced her to get interested in DID therapy when she was taking her psychology classes because well even tho it helped her understand us and accept us.. it backfires for us when we try to find places to belong be supported and accepted.. it is spiralling with her.. knowing we are not believed and thought as liars. she is slipping into denial again thinking perhaps she has unknowingly mad e us up and being "fake" and its my fault. i guess i shoulda just let her know about us all without the influence to help her accept us easier.. but then she would be strugglig even more with it all than she is. however, these chats and forums are all the support we haave right now.. and not sure when we will have any therapist or if we even will.
also brings in trust issues.. who to trust, who and what is truly safe.. will we only end up backstabbed , emotionally slapped, and hurt? is it worth it? should we even risk it or should we just isolate from the world and everyone?
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Sorry to hear you're struggling Sadie ):
If Sarah wants she can always talk to one of my littles, there are 3 (although Sapphire and Holly are loners in a way) but I'm sure they'd appreciate talking to someone anyway.
I wuld liks to talk tem =) yous has yahoo messngr? we dos. we givs yous are nam in privit messg if yous wans it ok?
we ok toda.. jus buzi at werk wif inspekter man tat did comd. we haz tomoro off for turkee da=) tat bes good cuz we no get extra pa for holdas. meen boss man. =P
so at lees we gerts go to mommis hous an eets =) mommi cook yummi food.
I think my friend dissociated the other night; well, a form of dissociation. He was really stressed and today he doesn't reall remember it, saying he feels like he's blacked out from it. Which is understandable.
Guess I just needed to share my thoughts on it. He knows I have DID, but has no clue about actual dissociation so there is no way he couldn't learnt it off me, per say.
I'd rather he not dissociate, he means so much to me.
A thousand mile journey starts with the first step
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Hey, hope everyone's doing okay today.
OMG, my MUM came on here. I was like "you're not thinking of joining are you?" and she was like "no." ARGHH what the hell? This is my place to write, and I write things on here that I'd rather she didn't see...
I'm been remembering stuff about when I was little... I don't like it. I don't even know if it's defantly real... it's feels real, and now I remember it it does feel like I always knew it, but logically I know that a few months ago I did not remember it...
My name is Daniel and I am part of Vaxir. I have just come to and my vision is rather blurry and looking at the hands, it is hard to ground myself. She has had a horrific night and I popped up out of the blue.
Watching my hands is a strange image. They don't look like mine, as though looking at another body's. I am clasping them together as a grounding technique but it is still an odd thing. This has not happened before so it is rather odd. Hands are hands, but they look and feel odd.
I apologise for the meaningless babble, but what is this with hands and their odd feeling and look? Putting them together is not grounding me.
