i dont know what to do, i cant tell anyone or go to the police, i cant explain why, its too long, i just cant.
i know someone who in 3 weeks time has told me (he is over 10 years older than me) he is coming to see me, not going to tell me when so he can surprise me (i call shock) and he will turn up on my door, and in his words "i WILL have sex with you and if you try and stop me, you WILL regret it."
you are probably thinking, dont believe him, but i do because he is telling the truth. he will turn up and do that to me cuz he has done it before. i try and stop him and just get hurt, so it is best to just go along with it so the pain isnt too much.
Like i said, for my own reasons, i cannot tell ANYONE, just people on here. i am scared and tired of living in fear of when he will turn up. i cant stop him from entering my flat due to the way the flat is designed (not very well).
Honey, I know you say that you can't involve the police, but I would really really urge you to tell someone else if at all possible. He shouldn't have this hold over you.
At the very least, could you spend a few days with family or friends, or have friends over quite a bit so he doesn't have chance? Keep your door locked at all times, if possible. If he does turn up, ring the police and say someone is at your door and harassing you?
Can you tell us more about what's going on, sweetheart? We're listening to you, we want to help.
Honey, I know you say that you can't involve the police, but I would really really urge you to tell someone else if at all possible. He shouldn't have this hold over you.
At the very least, could you spend a few days with family or friends, or have friends over quite a bit so he doesn't have chance? Keep your door locked at all times, if possible. If he does turn up, ring the police and say someone is at your door and harassing you?
Can you tell us more about what's going on, sweetheart? We're listening to you, we want to help.
basically the same thing as said ^^^
you need to do what is best for you in the future and now. i knwo its a very scary prospect, and you have your reasons, but is there knowone else you could talk to
We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others that in the end we become disguised to ourselves.
Hunni,
I know you said you can't tell anyone, but please you have to tell someone, anyone. It's not fair he is doing this to you. Take care, we're all here for you. xo.
i think that you really do need to consider telling them, even if you have a bad rep with them, this is your safety, your life we're talking about.
you shouldn't have to live in fear like this. let someone help you
