Oh my.. it's not something I talk about, in conversation. I'd be too embarrassed, and that's fine. Plus.. the subject just never comes up, lol.
I only really do it when my guy and I haven't bumped uglies in a while, though.
I've never found it a problem. Me and my closest friends are always talking about it. We discuss how good it was, what we were listening too, embarrassing incidences (Like when my friend got over excited and broke her rabbit with her ladyparts). I don't find it taboo at all, and it's been a long time since I have talked about it with someone and they've been awkward about it. It's perfectly natural and fun, so why should it be a big secret.
My friends and I go to Ann Summers together to try out the vibes on our noses. And then to the sex shops after to get the same vibes cheaper. We've had dildo fights before, too. It doesn't even register to me that people could be weird about it.
Would be interesting to see how old the people who are uncomfortable with it, as opposed to the age of the people comfy with it. I definatly wasn't this comfortable with or open about sex when I was 14-16, for instance.
well im 16 and me and my friends sit around and just in our small group talk about it quite openly. we go to ann summers and browse together and I am even going to give my old vibrater (its broken coz the batterys leaked and buggered it up) to one of my mates so she can stretch herself for when her bf comes over in the summer.
I am even going to give my old vibrater (its broken coz the batterys leaked and buggered it up) to one of my mates so she can stretch herself for when her bf comes over in the summer.
Really?
It doesn't bother me discussing it if it comes up in conversation but i don't generally start the conversation!
Ali xox
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well im 16 and me and my friends sit around and just in our small group talk about it quite openly. we go to ann summers and browse together and I am even going to give my old vibrater (its broken coz the batterys leaked and buggered it up) to one of my mates so she can stretch herself for when her bf comes over in the summer.
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Originally Posted by BlindSpot.
Really?
"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. Make us all feel wonderful. We'll never forget."
I agree with Chels, or just taking it slow with her boyfriend!
It doesn't always hurt anyway.
I'd just always use my own, even if it had been cleaned (especially if it may have battery acid or something on it)
With demons dancing off mirror images reflecting all that you wanted.
So far from perfect, onward we will strive.
Take it for what it's worth, this truth that you've realized.
You're not who you thought you were, it's time to see the other side of what you have become.
well im 16 and me and my friends sit around and just in our small group talk about it quite openly. we go to ann summers and browse together and I am even going to give my old vibrater (its broken coz the batterys leaked and buggered it up) to one of my mates so she can stretch herself for when her bf comes over in the summer.
You can buy cheap vibrators for under £10.
failing that.. tell her to go out and buy an assortment of vegetables and put condoms over them.
why would she want to borrow it when a) its been inside you and b) the batteries leaked and it probably has battery acid on it.
and.. she shouldnt really need to stretch herself.. i mean, babies come out of there.. it stretchs quite well anyway, they just need to take their time and use lots of lube.