Triggering (Sexual Abuse) - boyfriend

[shadow-light]

well done for talking to him. I am really glad that it went well :)

[linder surprise]

okay well next time don't do anything & see if he tries to "make" you.
i dunno, that sounds lame but shrug, just to make sure.

[Geranium]

Glad you talked to him. Please don't let him force you to do anything you don't want ever again - what he did was assault.

You have every right to say no any time you want to. No meaning no.

If you generally have trouble being assertive like this you need to talk to someone about it, it's not a good pattern.

[moonprincessanita]

usually I am assertive. He just wanted it so bad I guess.