Triggering (SI/Sexual Abuse) - Im scared

Lostwoman · 14-02-2009, 05:56 AM

My abuser is out of prison now and because of some of my family not believing what happend he could get my address from them very easily. My husband works grave yard wont be home until 5am and I just really really want to cut right now Im trying not too though but its so hard. I can see this mans face in my head and I remember all of the horrible things he did to me for years and years. I dont know what it would do to me if I saw him again. I just wish he would stay in prison

Popple · 14-02-2009, 11:32 AM

*cuddles*
How are you feeling now love?
Almost certianley he will not be allowed near you and if he even attempts t make contact phone the police ok.
Take care of yourself feel free to pm me if you need anything
xx

Iclemyer · 14-02-2009, 03:03 PM

I can relate to the feelings of this in a way seeing the person/people who have hurt you is so difficult I freeze everytime I see the people who hurt me its weird and I know it is hard but you have to remember you have done nothing wrong sweetie and like miss pixie said call the police if he tried to get near you in anyway
My PM box is there if you want to use it anytime
take care
Dianne <3

Lostwoman · 14-02-2009, 04:56 PM

ty both I did make it through the night but it was really difficult will call the cops if he gets near me thats for sure.

shadow-light · 14-02-2009, 05:15 PM

I can imagine that this is a fairly scary time for you... but as has been said if he comes near you or even just attempts to make contact you are well within your rights to call the police and I am sure that they would do something.

troubleshooter · 14-02-2009, 06:23 PM

*hugs* I hear Oregon has pretty bad laws with prisoners and I'm sorry to hear this is happening to you. Maybe call the loacl police station and tell them to get his parole officer to make sure he doesn't come within so many feet of your home or work. Also, I would get some kind of alarm system, and perhaps even a guard dog if you can get one. A dog might comfort you and make you feel safe at the same time. (I'm big on animals =P) Anyway, I hope this can be worked out and you stay safe. *hugs*