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Old 04-09-2008, 10:04 PM   #1
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Tips to help manage voices

I was given some advice while in hospital on how to manage the voices in my head & I've found them really helpful, so I'd thought I'd share
  • Headphones & music might help to block out the voices (the louder the music is, the more effective is for me, also if its a song I really like, one I can sing along to & 'sink myself into' helps.
  • Talking into a phone as a way to respond to the voices to tell them to go away etc
  • Pick ONE voice to deal with at a time, don't overload yourself & try to deal with all of them at once, it only makes you more stressed & vulnerable
  • Send the voices away on a mission (I use this one a lot, I love it)
  • Sometimes you will be able to ignore the voices
  • Try to take things easy & relax before you make any major decisions (like listening to what the voices are telling you to do)
  • Sleeping might help
  • Keep your mind occupied on something that takes time & concentration
  • Write out the dialogue between you & the voice
  • Talk to someone with a similar experience
  • Give some time to think about where you live, the quality of your surroundings, both buildings & people can affect how your feeling. If your somewhere you feel unsafe/uncomfortable the voices might be harder to deal with - try to move somewhere you feel at ease (I find when I'm out in the town centre they get worse & I get really paranoid, however I feel really safe in Starbucks, so I go sit in there for as long as it takes for me to calm down & take control)
Hope this helps :hug:







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Old 05-09-2008, 10:51 AM   #2
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Old 05-09-2008, 11:59 AM   #3
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thank you for this :)



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Old 05-09-2008, 12:03 PM   #4
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Old 05-09-2008, 02:33 PM   #5
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Old 05-09-2008, 04:03 PM   #6
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thanks, that was really helpful,
especially this tip;
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Give some time to think about where you live, the quality of your surroundings, both buildings & people can affect how your feeling. If your somewhere you feel unsafe/uncomfortable the voices might be harder to deal with - try to move somewhere you feel at ease (I find when I'm out in the town centre they get worse & I get really paranoid, however I feel really safe in Starbucks, so I go sit in there for as long as it takes for me to calm down & take control)
I often get very scared when I'm out in public and the voices start, so thats a very good tip for me, I'll try something like that, thanks again!



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Old 05-09-2008, 05:58 PM   #7
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no problem =)
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Old 05-09-2008, 08:30 PM   #8
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Thanks, my gp told me to try recognise the negative/bad thoughts/voices and conciously tell it to go away but its hard to make that happen.

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Old 05-09-2008, 10:10 PM   #9
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thanks hun for sharing :) my gp didnt help ,so im gonna try those to dont see why they cant work for me too :)



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Old 06-09-2008, 04:55 AM   #10
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Old 06-09-2008, 04:09 PM   #11
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thankyou for this thread, it will help muchly





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Old 08-09-2008, 03:54 PM   #12
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thanks for this, i think i might try and get it sticky-ed.




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Old 10-09-2008, 03:32 PM   #16
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Old 12-09-2008, 12:10 PM   #17
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your welcome everyone :)
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