To be honest i don't think there is anything else you can possibly do, as ultimately it's his decision to do what he does to cope, even though there are better, safer alternatives.
If things start to go sour between them too, then you could ask him why he feels the need to do it, what does it bring, and then see if you both can work out ways in how you can deal with the urges.
Maybe tell him about this website, about how he can use it to gain help or as a distraction if he ever gets the urges?
It's a tricky situation, but the best thing you can do is to be there for him and make him sure that he knows that you are there for him, and that you care.
Take care of yourself =)
Chloe. xx
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