i agree with the above about an impartical adult needed. The thing is if you keep telling her that he is a bad man she is un likely to talk to you abou tit as even if he is abusing her he is still her dad and she will still love him as a dad regardless of how he is with her. So if she thinks that you hate him she wont want to speak to you about him as she probably doesn't hate him. I am really not explaining this well... essentially I think she needs an impartical person to speak to, I think all you can do is make it clear that you are there for her if she needs it
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