I think as has been said her reaction was probably due to not only you both being her children but the length of time that has passed since the event. Has anyone said that they have turned against you or is this what you feel that they are thinking? Both are horrible, but the latter should be a little easier to work with.
Have you considered seeing a counselor or some other professional? It could even be possible after a few sessions to have one with your mum or even your whole family to help to "clear the air" as it were and to help you understand them and them understand you in a safe environment.
I am sorry for what happened, and that you feel that it's not been taken seriously. The politics of familys are complicated unfortunately, often it is best to seak help from an outside source as they are more detatched from the situration
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