i'm in a sort of similar situration... appart from that I live with my boyfriend... we are currently visiting parents and it took me almost 3 days of asking befofre we left home just to get him to agree to text me while he was there... I'm always the one doing the running too...
I have found though, that the less "needy" you seem the more possitivly they react... for example, if every now and then you don't run, and don't make a sacrifice... sort of scares them... it's hard to do though...
I think the problem is that sometimes they take the fact that we'll be there for granted... so by saying that "the less needy you act the better they react" I'm not saying it's your fault, just bad wording, can;t think of better... but every now and then I think we need to remind them that we may not always jump no matter what and that they need to make an effort now and again
may not be the best advice.. but it's what I have found to work... i now get dayly texts and generally get to see my boyfriend now and then while we're at parents houses. though I am still always the one to go over there... not sorted that issue yet...
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