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Old 29-04-2009, 10:20 PM   #1
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Triggering (Sexual Abuse) - ermmm well sex problem

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well to cut a long story short i to be sick whenever i had sex but i managed to get over it with my boyfriend over a year ago.... well its just happend again for the first time in over a year :( i dont no y... has this happend to anyoneelse that was abused? :( i hate the look on my bfs face when it happens...



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Old 29-04-2009, 10:29 PM   #2
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I often feel this way after/during sexual stuff... never actually happened, but often felt like ti may...


I think it's to do with part of ours minds being almost disgusted by sex due to past... though may be totally wrong

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Old 30-04-2009, 12:29 PM   #3
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I get this, im sick whenever i have sex, altho i try and completely avoid it, i went thru a stage of making myself have sex (kind of thought id get over it if i faced it) but im sick everytime i do anything sexual. I think its def the fact i feel disgusted by sex, like i shouldnt physically "enjoy" something that i was forced to do in my past. I think it is all related. Im sorry i cant be much help, hope it helps to know ure not the only one.

Have you spoken to someone about it? it may help
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Old 30-04-2009, 03:11 PM   #4
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I know how you feel. The first time me and my fiance did, I threw up and cut up my leg. It's just that the feelings will never go away no matter how much you want them to.
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