can someone offer advice

[aaronbemn]

,i am having a issue, well my wife is having the issue but i dont know how to help her,i will start off by saying she is very overwhelmed right now her grandma just died her dad disowned her and her dad just burnt down her grandmas house, besides that her ex is trying to take her daughter away from her, needless to say she is stressed, also it may help to know she is bipolar, she just came clean to me today we sat down and had a talk , turns out she has started hitting herself and banging her head on the wall she says it relieves the pain temporarily, she is scared of what is going to happen when all these things that have happened recently catch up to her and reality sinks in,i dont know where to go she does not want to see a counceler she is sick of them, does any one have any aadvice of what i can do to point her in the right direction

[Yellow Duck]

Hi "hugs" im sorry to here that all that is happening for you and your wife.
maybe try talking to her helping her through what she is feeling and maybe doing things together like going to the movies or doing mini golf or whatever you injoy doing together. and what about seeing her doctor they may be able to help her and give her some coping stratagies. How are you you have talked about your wife how are you, how are you coping with everything?

[Cazki]

Hi welcome to ryl. I hope you get the support you need. Here is the guide to ryl http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...play.php?f=105

This is the big welcome to ryl thread http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...d.php?t=151469

Here is the Serious Discussion Forum http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...splay.php?f=30

This is the Self Injury Support Forum http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...splay.php?f=29

If you need anything please feel free to get in touch.

Take care best wishes Ian

[aaronbemn]

i am doing all right i am more worried for my wife than anything,i know time will heal me missing grandma, but on the positive not my wife has some hope she switched doctors today and she got totally different meds for her bi polar the doctor basically said her old doctor had no clue what she was doing, so there is hope now all i can do is try to be here for her and support her, i do appreciate your reply thank you for asking about me too not too many people do that i am supposed to be the strong one