hi,ok so i going out with a guy who like 24 and i am 14, i love him so much,and its was going well we loe each other,but he not talk to me all day,which has hurt my feeling,feek like i going to break un half,we talk to each other every day,so notsure why today.
Actually, it is an alarming post.
Why is a man of 24 with a 14 year old ?! You do realize there are also legal issues to this 'relationship', I hope?
As in the charge of statutory rape ?
Sorry, but this is just...disturbing.
*hugs* I agree, in almost every country any sort of sexual relationship with him would involve him breaking the law. i know that's hard to understand when you're 14, i've been there to some extent myself. but really a guy that old should not be looking at you as a girlfriend. there is way too much age gap, there is so much you will change even in just the next few years. Does anyone know about you guy's relationship? I would seriously consider breaking it off, I have no idea why he didn't talk to you today but it really is alarming like said above that a guy in his mid twenties would go out with someone ten years younger. It's not about the age difference but rather the fact that he is an adult and you are a teenager, so he is going to be able to manipulate you much easier and you aren't really consenting like you think you are as there is such a difference in how a 14 year old and a 24 year old think. so sorry not trying to offend you, i just have been there to a lesser extent and i realize now why everyone was so worried about me. feel free to pm me if you ever need to talk.
There could be all manner of reasons as to why he hasn't been in touch today. Something could have happened that's taken priority that he has to deal with. Think of the possibilities.
BUT, as said above, it's of quite a concern that you're with someone this age when you are only 14. If you are sexually involved with each other then it's illegal. Or had that no occurred to you?
I dunno about the not contacting you - maybe he grew a conscience.
xx
Stop thinking about what I want, what he wants, what your parents want. What do you want?
I agree with them above Beckey and you need to listen to me and it is against the law of the age gap..I think you should date around your age and it's perfect match together..
You don't need a 24 years old man because he might be using you..You need to realize what you have done! you also need to get straighting this out before he makes you worse!..
As said by others supporting you here, it is concerning a 24 year old is with you, you don't know for sure that he loves you because he very well could just be using you and telling you he loves you to keep you around.
I would advise you tell your parents you are together if they don't know already, if not yur parents maybe the school counsellor? someone needs to know about this relationship to help you with the emotional struggles with it. xx
It is very worrying indeed.
I am concerned for you and I hope someone knows of this and they can help you. A 24 year old man involved with a 14 year old girl is wrong. He is wrong. He is a peadophile.
I want to kiss the bottom of the ocean before I burst through its surface into the sunlight, otherwise I will always be wondering about what was left unseen at the bottom
i'm tired of chasing my dreams. i'm just gonna ask where they're going, and hook up with them later.
I agree with all the above, no offence to you but why is a 24 year old going out with u? By definition he is a paedophile, stay away from him, does anyone else know..? What do u your parents think? I would assume they dont know, but you never know..
It is very worrying indeed.
I am concerned for you and I hope someone knows of this and they can help you. A 24 year old man involved with a 14 year old girl is wrong. He is wrong. He is a peadophile.
This sounds like me when i was 13, I had a 23 year old 'boyfriend' who sexually abused me for nearly a year, until SOMEONE told me it was wrong, as at 13, I didn't realise it was.
Word of warning, get the heck out. No man should be interested in a 14 year old at his age.
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