Adult - Help, need to decide something and I don't know what to do

StaceyBee · 06-11-2009, 11:23 PM

I put up some new pictures on Facebook today and my mate who works for a modelling company asked me if I wanted to model for them
I had a look at the website and it was saying things like I had to be willing to consider any type of modelling including "artistic nude" and that
Thing is, I don't really want to do it if I'm gonna have to get everything out and it's also got all glamour modelling and stuff on it
I spoke to my boyfriend and he doesn't like the idea but he said if it makes me happy then I should do it and my mum reckons I shouldn't do it
But I just wanted some more opinions, I told my mate I'd think about it and let her know

Lucius. · 06-11-2009, 11:43 PM

It's up to you, sweetheart. No one else. If you do decide to, though, take someone with you.

Accidentally Abstract · 07-11-2009, 12:14 AM

I'd talk to your friend some more about it & see what it really involves.

Bleeding Angel · 07-11-2009, 12:18 AM

at the end of the day they cant force you to do anything, but as been said this is your choice, no one can make it for you.

Second Chance · 07-11-2009, 12:21 AM

If you don't feel good about it, don't do it. It's up tp you.

StaceyBee · 07-11-2009, 10:58 AM

To be honest I wouldn't feel comfortable getting it all out to be honest
All it was based on was a few pictures on Facebook that had actually been edited a bit so it wasn't as if they were proper natural kind of thing
I don't think I'm gonna do it though, I know for a fact that my boyfriend isn't entirely happy with the idea even though he'd support me whatever I choose to do and I know my mum thinks I shouldn't do it as well
It just seems a bit dodgy as well and it's gonna be too much hard work for me to be honest

Ninja Orange · 07-11-2009, 11:09 PM

You shpuldn't do anything that you wouldn;t be entirely comfortable with. And you should also be wary of any compay that seems to force you into a contract where you'd have to do anything they tell you.

I remember watching/reading something about modelling, and someone in the modelling business (sorry for being so vague) was saying that nude modelling is kind of looked down on by glamour modelling, so I'd consider that as well.

If you want to model, you should probably send a portfolio to a few other agencies and see what they say. Talk to your mate as well, the one who works for the agency, find out more information on what it's really like. In the end, it's your choice.

Steel Magnolia · 07-11-2009, 11:20 PM

I was a model myself and I really have to say be careful. There are a lot of genuine people out there but also a lot of people who will try to take advantage of you and you have to be wary of that - it happens very easily!!! I 100% agree with the others. Whatever you decide to do, good luck!
x

Freya · 08-11-2009, 12:53 AM

nien nien nien

but go with your gut

I.Heart.And · 08-11-2009, 10:50 AM

I voted no because you don't seem like you would really want to do it.

Rain that's Fallen · 08-11-2009, 02:25 PM

I would seek advice from outside sources, find out about other models of theirs, contact them, find out more what it involves, ask another model agency for advice, google them a lot.

My thoughts though are that it sounds extremely dodgy and you could get into a very difficult situation through it.

Douglass · 08-11-2009, 02:49 PM

talk to your friend about it.
It seems like you are not quite sure what the modeling would involve and you can't make an informed decision unless you actually know what is going on.

However if it was manditory when you sign up to be willing to nude pictures and you are not comfortable then don't do it.