You're right Liv. I am struggling a lot right now! I dunno which way is up, but I feel like I've been so selfish n my posts on other threads have triggered others. Even my attempts to support others have done more harm than good so, I feel like I need to just fade away.
Well I know I don't really know you, but from what I've seen of your posts you certainly haven't been selfish or triggered anybody - I've seen some of your posts giving encouragement to people, and they've always been great. :)
It's definitely not selfish to need some support sometimes too, everybody needs support if they're struggling and sometimes asking online is easier than in 'real life'. You sound like you're being very harsh on yourself at the moment, because I don't think you need to fade away at all.
Sometimes it can feel a bit overwhelming when you don't really know which way is up, do you think you can try and do something nice to look after yourself for today? x
You are not hurting anyone though Solo! Nobody wants you too fade away! I definitely know I dont want you too because I love reading your posts on here :)
You have also helped a lot of people, me being one of them :) And you are by NO means being selfish or triggering anyone. You nedd support too! Also, if you are referring mainly to the one post of the lady who said not too or requested for people too not say what they have been eating, she was not referring to you! She was saying it in general soo people would know!
You can always pm me if you need or want :) And I am sure not just me, but anyone else as well! And I am being serious!
*LOVE AND HUGS*
These kicks take me far away my dear; Far away from myself Far away from my troubles
Far away from heaven
We want to listen to you and encourage you. No need to stop posting. This is what RYL is here for. Try not to shut yourself off from everyone, especially your in-person friends, I've done it, and it just makes stuff worse.
Every day the world is made a chance to change but i feel the same.
And I wonder why would i wait till i die to come alive?"
All alone the way she feels
Left alone to deal with all the pain-drenched sorrow relief
Libz, you're actually one of the people who I felt I tried to help, but only made it worse. I do believe that person was referring to me n that wasn't the first time something I said triggered someone else. Thanks though! I really appreciate you!
Anna, I had already decided to shut myself off from my in-person friends because it seems all I do is hurt, frustrate n destroy friendships. I had thought I would at least have ryl, but it seems I can't get that right either. Thank you too hun! You're so sweet!
What do you mean you believe you made me worse? I dont want to say what went on but, I think you know what I am talking about... But if you werent there for me there at the time, I probably would have torn myself apart! You helped me in SOO many ways and you dont realize it and it is not just me! So you never made anything worse!!!!!
PLEASE DO NOT GO...
These kicks take me far away my dear; Far away from myself Far away from my troubles
Far away from heaven
i would be sad if you stopped asking for help. i think it was such a brave step to take. i don't think you're selfish. sorry i haven't replied sooner. xxx
What I mean Libz, without getting into what was goin on then, is that I gave you the best I had at the time and my advise made things worse for both of you. Not that it was the first time that's happened.
No it did not!!! I dont know if you know, but I was pm'ed and it was a major apology and things are cool between us! Your best was THE best! And considering you were practically the only person helping me through it, you did all you could and I really do appreciate it *HUGS* And your human so remember that, you cant fix everything or do everything right! No matter how much you want to! Something I am still trying to get down! And I am not saying this just out of support I am saying it out of truth! I dont and cant see where you made things worse for me... Cause you didnt!
you cant shut everyone out Solo! Or practically everyone! It will ONLY make things worse, believe me! And nobody on here things you did wrong or anything bad! Except if you shut people out of your life, you need them!!!!!
Love ya!!! Please take care!
These kicks take me far away my dear; Far away from myself Far away from my troubles
Far away from heaven
No Libz, I didn't know that. Last I knew, they were really angry n you were really frustrated n confused. I'm so glad they came around! I know what a relief that is for you!
And I thank you for a majority of it!!! I am telling you, withou you, not trying too trigger anyone but probably would have cut myself quite a bit and pretty badly, but I didnt and it was because of YOU!!! Thanks a billion!!!!!
These kicks take me far away my dear; Far away from myself Far away from my troubles
Far away from heaven
I'm not sure what to say, except that I can't tell you how glad I am that you didn't hurt yourself and that things worked out so that you aren't blaming yourself for whatever may have happened with them!
