stuck in the middle

Piglet · 15-10-2009, 12:19 AM

Ok this is kinda long and complicated so please bare with me.

My ex housemate was dating her ex for a year and split up a few months ago (around the time she moved out). He is now dating our other housemate. But his ex is really not happy with the situation, they're having huge rows on facebook calling each other names.

Basically they hate each other and i'm stuck in the middle. I'm still friends with both of them but its really difficut. I've got one saying how they've betrayed her and the other saying how she's being totally unfair cause they had already split up.

I can see both point of view and i want to be there for both of them but i don't know what to do or say without it looking like i'm taking sides.

I.Heart.And · 15-10-2009, 09:50 AM

I would suggest that you just leave them to it and try not to get too involved. The arguing will die down in time.

Bleeding Angel · 15-10-2009, 03:44 PM

Dont talk about it to either person. If someone mentiones something then say thats its none of your buisness and you have nothing to say on the situation.

Its the best way to deal with it really.