Sorry, That was a little vague wasn't it.
I will expand a little.
Firstly, I'm here because this place rocks. I spent a fair bit of time here when i was younger because I had issues with self harm and depression. It was nice to have somewhere that would offer support without judgement.
The person I'm worried about is a young lady I work with.
We are not very close but we get on OK in work.
She nearly passed out in work last week and after a little gentle questioning she let on that she hadn't eaten that day.
Some more cautious probing has revealed that this is fairly common and that it was not the first time she had fainted.
I had been keeping an eye on her this week and from what i have seen and what she has said I'm now fairly certain that she is anorexic.
I've very loosely hinted at what i think and I've tried to make it clear that if she ever wants to talk about anything then I'm a good ear.
So...
I'm looking for advice from the people who know. (That's you guys here)
Is there a "best" way to approach her on this.
I'm trying to be as gentle as possible with her as I know from personal experience that people who think they are helping can often be doing the opposite.
Am i better off butting out?
Your friend is lucky to have someone like you who cares enough to have noticed and sought advice on how to help them
Kind of you to say so. I'd like to think that anyone on here would do the same though. Once you've had your own issues it tends to be easier to spot others. And i hate to see anyone suffering alone.