Triggering (Abuse) - i give up

[fallen wings44]

i saw her again.....she was outside of her class which was next the class room beside the class where i was going to.... to talk the teacher......all she did was look at me and smile and i wanted to run away................... it took all i had not to run away...... with her there... i was too scraed to tell the teacher about her.... so i talked to the teacher about other stuff.....

[Paper_Tigers]

maybe if you can tell someone, you could get your friend that knows to tell someone? Please do.. We'll be here for support and advice along the way. But if you don't let anyone know whats going on it'll just get worse. I'm sorry you're going through this, but you have to believe you're strong and brave so you can tell someone.xxx

[fallen wings44]

after what happened... im too scraed to do that... :(

[Paper_Tigers]

Would your friend talk to someone for you? You can ask her to do it privately. Or you could write a note to your teacher telling her whats been going on, so all you'll have to do is hand it to her at the end of class. I know how hard it is, I've been there many of times before, you just need to find your inner-strenght and don't think about it, just do it.

[fallen wings44]

but i dont want her to get hurt if she does that then SHE might find out and hurt my friend too..............

[Illigran]

That is really a difficult situation. Maybe one way would be to have a serious talk with her - maybe she can be made to listen to reason, so that the two of you may make peace with each other. After all, if I understand your posts correctly, she seems to have stopped actively picking on you (even if it may be only out of fear of getting into trouble), which is a good starting point. Sorry, I don´t have any other advice right now...

[Paper_Tigers]

Hmmm.. The best you can do then is talk to your parents and get them to go to the school, if the girl sees your parents there, she'll just think that the teacher needs to talk to them about something, she wont think that anythings going on. How have things been lately? Has she still been giving you trouble?

[fallen wings44]

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Originally Posted by kitkat2611

Hmmm.. The best you can do then is talk to your parents and get them to go to the school, if the girl sees your parents there, she'll just think that the teacher needs to talk to them about something, she wont think that anythings going on. How have things been lately? Has she still been giving you trouble?

i dont know.......

not as much as she used to......but a few weeks ago she made kissing sounds in my ear.......

[peregrinpara]

so she teased you there but since then hurt you not during that weeks? that seems at least an improvement. dont give up hope. you will see a bright solution i believe somehow

[Paper_Tigers]

Well I hope she leaves you alone. Has anything gotten better at all or is she still calling you names?

[fallen wings44]

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Originally Posted by kitkat2611

Well I hope she leaves you alone. Has anything gotten better at all or is she still calling you names?

lately she hasnt been doing that

[dasser]

*hugs* well done for sharing - it must have been really difficult to even write it down, let alone tell anyone. I am a teacher and it used to really upset me when things like this happened and I didn't find out about them until the situation was far advance and the victim was suffering to the extent you are. Please, please speak to someone in authority about the problem.

In the meantime, I am sure you are a beautiful, sensitive person who is a million miles away from this immature fool's interpretation of who you are. The best of luck with dealing with this issue.

[fallen wings44]

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Originally Posted by dasser

*hugs* well done for sharing - it must have been really difficult to even write it down, let alone tell anyone. I am a teacher and it used to really upset me when things like this happened and I didn't find out about them until the situation was far advance and the victim was suffering to the extent you are. Please, please speak to someone in authority about the problem.

In the meantime, I am sure you are a beautiful, sensitive person who is a million miles away from this immature fool's interpretation of who you are. The best of luck with dealing with this issue.

thank you

[fallen wings44]

atfer wekks of her leaveing me alone i thought it was over but today while i was going to my class she says "ride my dick hoe!!!!!!!!" I CANT TAKE IT!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT DOES SHE WANT FROM ME!!!!!!!????????