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29-07-2015, 04:18 AM
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tired
Join Date: Feb 2008
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Getting Over Your Soulmate
I fell in love with someone, and he fell in love with me. However, we can never be together. After a two year relationship I broke it off because, even though I had known all along that we could not ever stay together, it took me that long to work up the courage to do so.
I never believed in soulmates until I met him. But we were meant to be. We fit. It was perfect.
I miss him so much.
How do I begin to move on with my life?
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Even as the stone of the fruit must break that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.
There are only two ways in which one can live their life. One is as though nothing is a miracle, the other is as though everything is.
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30-07-2015, 10:32 PM
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BPD does not define me
Join Date: Jul 2015
Location: Manchester, UK
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I was in a similar position and it ended up he moved on faster than I.
The long and short is to give yourself time. Be sad when you are sad and happy when you are happy.
Be kind to yourself and it will pass eventually. Be kind to yourself xx
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31-07-2015, 11:12 AM
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tired
Join Date: Feb 2008
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Thank you both.
It has been two months and I think about him every day. Everything reminds me of him and it's like a blade through my chest every time.
I know that two months is not long and it's going to take a long time but eventually the sharpness will fade although it will never go away. I am resigned to carrying this forever.
Matthew I have noticed I am already comparing everyone to him and I need to be mindful that it's not a helpful thing to do so thank you as well for that point.
Just at the moment it's so raw and the rest of my life is such a mess. He was also my best friend so I've lost the person that I confided in and shared my feelings with. My life is falling apart and now I don't have him anymore so I'm feeling extra alone. I just don't know what to do. I miss him so much and I know my mental state is deteriorating fast.
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Even as the stone of the fruit must break that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.
There are only two ways in which one can live their life. One is as though nothing is a miracle, the other is as though everything is.
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31-07-2015, 08:40 PM
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BPD does not define me
Join Date: Jul 2015
Location: Manchester, UK
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My person was called Zak and its been a around 3 years since we last met each other. We text occasionally btu thats maybe 1 in 6 months and it still hurts to think I lost him.
It is easier now though but you will get moments that trigger memories i bet but you will learn to live with them once you have had time to heal x
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08-08-2015, 11:18 AM
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tired
Join Date: Feb 2008
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I'm so ****ing struggling.
Feel so desperately empty inside.
I miss him so much. I miss both him as a person and him as a companion. I am alone now in my life (again) and there is nobody to see the cuts - nothing stopping me doing it. When I knew he would see, it helped prevent me doing it so badly.
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Even as the stone of the fruit must break that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.
There are only two ways in which one can live their life. One is as though nothing is a miracle, the other is as though everything is.
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