It seems to me that, if you were kissing someone else while you were dating this boy, you might not feel as strongly about him as you think you do to begin with. There's a saying that goes something like "If you love two people at the same time, pick the second one because if you really loved the first, you wouldn't have fallen for the second." I'm not discounting your feelings for your boyfriend or saying that you're in love with this girl, but it's something to think about.
Beyond that, I'd consider the ramifications of breaking up with your boyfriend. You do have quite a history with him. Do you think he'd be agreeable to taking a break to "see other people"? If you think he'd be okay with it, go for it. If you doubt that you'd be able to get back with him, then you really have to figure out how strongly you feel about him and whether you're willing to give that up or not.
I'm sorry if this isn't very helpful. I'm just trying to think about what I would feel if I were in that situation. :/
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