to be fair, suggesting you excuse yourself when you are crying is not actually a bad suggestion. sometimes having some time on your own to try to help calm down can be really helpful. plus other clients shouldn't be the ones trying to help you anyways.
we're sorry things feel so awful at the moment. we hope they lessen in intensity soon. the good news is that things do typically move on pretty fast for you, so hopefully that will happen this time too.
Please do not give me virtual hugs unless you are only using the hug function on threads. Thanks.
You can't always keep it separate.
This is happening, this is part of you.
Mrs A said that if your friends don’t call you every day or go to your funeral then they are all associates and that means that once they are done with the job or day they don’t give a flip about you then that made me cry because I have a very hard time making friends and the friends that I do have they ether don’t call me at all and they are not going to be at my funeral…….. so that means I don’t have any friends and besides my family no one cares about me at all so I’m thinking what’s the point of living without friends?………
just another floating iceberg in this ocean we call life...….
Am I a failure from birth
Is misery what I deserve
Am I just so void of love
That I'm never good, never good enough
~citizen soldier-never good enough
we have friends that we only talk to a few times a year. it doesn't mean we don't care about one another and we're still friends. everyone is different. it's up to you and your friends to decide what makes a friendship a friendship, and how much you want to or can contact one another.
why on earth would you believe horrible advice like that?
Please do not give me virtual hugs unless you are only using the hug function on threads. Thanks.
You can't always keep it separate.
This is happening, this is part of you.
so isn't it possible that someone who says "I don't lie," could actually be lying about that? especially someone who is in a position of power over you, a vulnerable individual?
do you have a good relationship with this staff member? do you find their general attitude and beliefs to be of a manner that you agree with? do you think the way they lead their life and how they treat others is how you would want to do or emulate? are they in a position of power over you where they could potentially take advantage of that?
when someone gives you advice, those are all the types of things you should be thinking about before you decide if their advice is worth accepting and listening to.
legit cannot think of a single friend that we talk to every single day. it doesn't mean we don't have friends. it means we all have our own shit going on, and we talk to one another when we are able to and want to.
if for some reason we are friends with someone and we want to have more contact with them, we discuss it and discuss what's possible for both of us.
like we said, we have some friends we only talk to a few times a year. with one friend for example, we understand and accept that our lives are very different, and the time zone difference that exists now that they have moved across the country makes it really difficult to find time that matches up with our schedules. but it doesn't mean we don't care. we'll send emails or texts with little things we find online that remind us of the other and don't even necessarily expect replies. and when they come back to visit family once a year or so, we always try to make time to get together, even if it's only for a couple of hours.
friendships exist how you and your friends decide, and based on what works for the two of you. not based on some arbitrary rule that someone else decides.
Please do not give me virtual hugs unless you are only using the hug function on threads. Thanks.
You can't always keep it separate.
This is happening, this is part of you.
As has been stated before numerous times it's generally not a good idea to take the law into your own hands. Yes homophobia sucks but to "do something evil" is not a wise thing for you to do.
Wannabe CPN : -)
"He who is tired of Weird Al is tired of life." - Homer Simpson "I hear those voices that will not be drowned" Sanity is a nasty disease. The world would be a happier place without it. - Rilic
RIP Kat 4th July 1987- 11th June 2013
Wannabe CPN : -)
"He who is tired of Weird Al is tired of life." - Homer Simpson "I hear those voices that will not be drowned" Sanity is a nasty disease. The world would be a happier place without it. - Rilic
RIP Kat 4th July 1987- 11th June 2013
i cant get away from the past!!!!!!!! it always going to be there!!!!!!! im always going to think about it!!!!! always going to remenber it!!!!!!!!!!!! IM NEVER GOING TO ESCAPE MY FUCKING MIND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SO WHY CANT I DIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
just another floating iceberg in this ocean we call life...….
Am I a failure from birth
Is misery what I deserve
Am I just so void of love
That I'm never good, never good enough
~citizen soldier-never good enough
I know traumatic things in the past can be so distressing but there are ways you can learn to make them less distressing. Therapy is one of the best ways to work on that. What do you actually do in therapy?
I put it down on paper and then the ghost does not ache so much.
Don't try to calm the storm, calm yourself, the storm will pass.
Do you think it would be helpful to talk about the things you are struggling with rather than just talking about your day? I think that might be more productive for you.
I put it down on paper and then the ghost does not ache so much.
Don't try to calm the storm, calm yourself, the storm will pass.
Curveball
