Has anyone else gotten this response from someone? I feel like this has been the case with the past few people I've been interested in, and then a little down the road, they're dating someone else or asking me advice about someone they like!
Is it just that the don't like me? Am I really that much of a loser? I don't think I'm doing anything wrong or exceptionally crazy...
Is it just that the don't like me? Am I really that much of a loser? I don't think I'm doing anything wrong or exceptionally crazy...
*sigh*
I get this excuse alot. Hell, I've given it out a few times.
It's perfectly possible that it's because they don't want a relationship with you, but at the same time you have to understand that it doesn't make you a loser.
It takes alot of failed attempts before two people think of each other in the same way, regardless of who you are. It's not an entirely logical thing in my opinion either. Alot of the time people find themselves wishing they liked someone but knowing that the person they really have feelings for is the one that they mean nothing to or aren't going to have an easy time with.
It's fustrating, but you've got to keep moving on and eventually trying again.
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i had this, then they decided they liked me months later when i was going out with someone else then when we broke up he asked me out and broke up with me within a week, in this time he has liked me 'loved' me then didnt want a relationship, then liked me but i was taken, then went out, then didnt like me anymore, then i got we clashed cos we are too alike, even down to we are both depressed, which was never good,
but yeah ive had that a few times, i took it too heart but we were always friends and he told me not too, that it wasnt me, hes actually now very protective of me at times which is confusing
i've never had that reaction from someone, but i have been the one to say that. all i can say is don't take it too hard. i doubt it's because of you...sometimes things just don't work out the way you want them to. *hug* someday you will find someone who returns your feelings.
I doubt it's you...I've only asked one person out and her response was no, I don't see you as more than a friend and I don't want to complicate things..... but yea I highly doubt it's you....by the sounds of it, they are jerks....gl
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It's probably not you; sometimes, those kinds of excuses get used as just that - an excuse that is meant to sound honest. If that's the best thing they can say to you, and then treat you like Ricki Lake, then you are better off without them!
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Just because that person doesn't like you, it doesn't make you a loser. It just takes time to find the right person, and more often than not they turn up when you least expect it. I know it must be irritating to hear that someone doesn't want to be in a relaitonship then you suddenly see them with someone else, but just keep your chin up. Your not doing anything wrong it's just that the right person hasn't come along yet.
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Thanks for the advice. I know I shouldn't take it too personally, but that's one of the big problems I have...I see any form of rejection as a reflection of me as a person. (Stupid, I know.)
It's just frustrating, because the past 4 people I've been interested in have told me this...and so I've started to believe that maybe it is me. You're all probably right when you say to not waste my time on them...a couple of people were not that great to me...(Some still flirt w/me like mad though. WTF?)
Anyways, I hope that someday someone will come along...It's very possible that part of the problem is the city I'm in...Supposedly, it has a very high rate of single people, and it's notorious for being a difficult area to date in/meet others. Hmm.
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