Thats a bit vague.....maybe if you elaborate it will be easier for people to answer.
There are times to stay put, and what you want will come to you.
But there are times to go out into the world and find such a thing for yourself.
I aint no abacus but you can count on me.
Then wear the gold hat, if that will move her;
If you can bounce high, bounce for her too,
Till she cry "Lover, gold-hatted, high-bouncing lover,
I must have you!"
Thomas Parke DInvilliers
OP, I see you've only posted once (here) so I assume your problem is chat? In all honestly, chat can be difficult, because people in there are going through a hard time themselves. If you've found that you haven't got much support in chat, you might find it more helpful to post in the main forums.
It doesn't matter where you come from; it matters where you go.
No-one gets remembered for the things they didn't do.
We won't all be here this time next year,
so while you can take a picture of us.
We're definitely going to hell,
but we'll have all the best stories to tell.
Because this site is populated by humans who, historically, do not act in a super-human-supportive-caring-understanding-perfect way 24 hours a day, 7 days a week due to the fact they are human.
^ I appreciate you 'protecting' the OP but the fact is the OP started this thread and needs to answer the questions posed when they are in polite response to the OP's own statements. That is unless their statements were rhetorical in which case their thread belongs in rant and vent, not here.
'Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you.'
['There is only one thing we say to death. Not today'.']
'We are each our own devil, and we make this world our hell. Oscar Wilde
Its hard to dance with the devil on your back. Sydney Carter
*offers hugs to OP* you're a member just as everyone else is, don't be afraid to say what's on your heart. its worth the same weight as anyones' comment.