"Are you ok?"
I appreciate it when people ask me if I'm ok. In fact, it often makes my day. But however low I'm feeling, I can only ever give one response; "Yes, fine thank you," followed by a smile.
I hate that I can't seem to admit that I'm actually NOT always ok. I just immediately say 'yes' when someone asks, then think to myself 'no you're not ok, you liar.' I can't say it out loud to them. If someone asks me in a text in an email however, I find it easy to go into my problems in depth.
I suppose it might be because, when someone asks you if you're alright, they are expecting a positive response, and I don't want to shock them with a negative one. I don't want to trouble them, even though it might be better if I did. By the way, I'm talking about my teachers and friends here.
Anyone got any advice on how to admit you're struggling?
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