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Old 10-10-2018, 09:03 PM   #1
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Back again!

Hey, I haven't been on here for 3 years now (Haven't needed to, luckily) but I have come back on here because the last few weeks and today inparticular I have really been struggling.

I have a lot going on at the moment in my life, I have my dads (3rd) wedding on Friday.

I have an operation on my leg on the 29th, so will be stuck in bed for a few months. With no outside contact.

I feel like I have no one to chat to, one of my best friends I try to chat to but she is living in Japan at the moment, so can't pop out for a catch up and the time difference gets in the way.

I'm in a kind of relationship but the other person I chat to a lot and we are very close but she doesn't feel like she can see me! (She lives 5 mins away) but I have known her for 9 years and she does make me feel happy, she does say she will see me again soon and it seems to be getting closer. But it is getting me down. We have tried to just be friends a few times but within 2 days we seem to get closer than ever.

Just all comes at once, and it is getting to me.

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Old 11-10-2018, 04:41 PM   #2
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No advice but wanted to say goodluck with the wedding and the op.



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Old 14-10-2018, 11:40 AM   #3
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I hope things are manageable at least. I know it's not the same as face to face contact but will you be able to communicate online while you are recovering from your operation? Will you be getting any support?





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Old 17-10-2018, 02:46 PM   #4
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Thank you for the listening, the wedding went okay, so glad it is over and I am back home though!

This evening I am back to work for just over a week, and am getting nervous, there is no reason why I should but I always am nervous going in after being off for any period of time, also I am the Union rep for my store (I work in Tesco) and whilst I was off there were elections, so I am unaware of the outcome, which is making me more nervous than normal.

Now other things are out of the way I am thinking more about the operation and getting more nervous about that, so I just want it to be done now, but still have to wait another 12 days.

Also on a lighter side, for some reason I am getting invites to sign up to track my childrens progress from a secondary school in Bridgend!

Number 1 - I don't have kids!
Number 2 - I've never been to Bridgend!

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Old 19-10-2018, 03:11 PM   #5
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I'm glad you got through the wedding ok. How has work been?





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