Well, it's not so much losing my virginity that bothers me, but more that part of the reason I still have it is because I've yet to even have a serious relationship. Tends to make me feel a little awkward and/or get me down at times <_<;
Can i ask.. in making this thread, are you looking for any advice or reassurace or anything?
I was just curious really. You see it isn't something you normally talk about in person, and as much as statistics tell us it is still nice to know it about real people not just stats as they are often unrealistic.
I was actually 13 myself, i have only just noticed that i never put this in. I know some people have obvioulsy thought this thread to be a bit out of order but i really didn't mean any offence by it. I did intend to put an adult label on it so i am sorry if there wasn't one to begin with.
I suppose i just thought it would nice and reassuring for myself and others to realise that there are other people in the same shoes. I felt like getting the age i lost it off my chest, i havn't ever told anyone in person you see, i know i didn't put it in at first but i did mean to.
I am really sorry guys if i offended.....i feel really guilty now. I think that is it for my threads from now on. Again, i am very sorry.
I lost mine my freshman year of college at the age of 18.
I want to stay in love with my sorrow.
Oh, but God, I want to let it go.
If you look in the mirror and don't like what you see, you can find out first-hand what it's like to be me.
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When I care, it curls me up on the floor and I swear I can't do it anymore.
I was just curious really. You see it isn't something you normally talk about in person, and as much as statistics tell us it is still nice to know it about real people not just stats as they are often unrealistic.
I was actually 13 myself, i have only just noticed that i never put this in. I know some people have obvioulsy thought this thread to be a bit out of order but i really didn't mean any offence by it. I did intend to put an adult label on it so i am sorry if there wasn't one to begin with.
I suppose i just thought it would nice and reassuring for myself and others to realise that there are other people in the same shoes. I felt like getting the age i lost it off my chest, i havn't ever told anyone in person you see, i know i didn't put it in at first but i did mean to.
I am really sorry guys if i offended.....i feel really guilty now. I think that is it for my threads from now on. Again, i am very sorry.
dont need to be sorry, or stop posting. hell i think there was a thread about female masturbating on here not too long ago.
there are lots of 'pointless' threads
doesn't affect anyone
if people dont like it or are easily offended, then they shouldn't read, they could tell from the title what the content was going to be.
I am 23 and i haven't had sex yet, or done anything else for that matter. It doesent really bother me though, i dont really want to, it still kinda scares me to be honest.
I came close a few times when I was in high school.... and almost lost in when I was 18 but my fear of people seeing my scars stopped me each time, more than anything else did. (Well that and the fact that I absolutely was not going to lose it in the backseat of a car! I mean come on....).
But I still did more than people would think I did.... kind of funny actually since most people think I'm this sweet innocent person haha
Thank you for all of your help and support. I will no longer be coming to RYL. Semi-explanation will be inside my profile.
I was 11 ....
was seein the guy since i was 6 . nothing serious like .. but yeah . i know itw young .. but still i dont regret it and it helped me realise my true sexuality ...... i was 14 with a girl .....i'm now 17....
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I was 19, and it was to the man I am now married to. I don't regret it, but that's probably because I'd waited for him.
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I was just curious really. You see it isn't something you normally talk about in person, and as much as statistics tell us it is still nice to know it about real people not just stats as they are often unrealistic.
I was actually 13 myself, i have only just noticed that i never put this in. I know some people have obvioulsy thought this thread to be a bit out of order but i really didn't mean any offence by it. I did intend to put an adult label on it so i am sorry if there wasn't one to begin with.
I suppose i just thought it would nice and reassuring for myself and others to realise that there are other people in the same shoes. I felt like getting the age i lost it off my chest, i havn't ever told anyone in person you see, i know i didn't put it in at first but i did mean to.
I am really sorry guys if i offended.....i feel really guilty now. I think that is it for my threads from now on. Again, i am very sorry.
No No, i wasnt saying you shouldnt post.
It was a genuine question.
You shouldnt be sorry.
and actually, reading a lot of the replies here has made me feel better about the age that i lost mine.
we are the fallen
we are the wounded
we are the shattered
we are the unheard
we are the brave
we are the strong we are Survivors. and..... we are the future
we fallen can still rise by the wings of hope that lifts us~
I was 14. . . It was with someone that meant a lot to me then and still does now, but we aren't currently in a relationship.
It was a terribly awkward experience, being 14, not knowing exactly what to do. In no way was it romantic or "special". I don't regret it but I do sometimes wish that I was still a virgin.
Because even the sweetest angel has a sadistic side.
Consentually I was 15 with a girl and 17 with a guy.
Im now 20.
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16 with a man, my current partner actually. I don't regret it with him, but if I could go back I would wait a bit longer and make it a bit more romantic. I cried after...lol hmmmm. Dunno how he has put up with me :p
I'm 18 now =)
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