Friendship Help

[aphrodite_bluuu]

Just so you know, before you read this, I'm a girl.

So, my ex-best friend (and also ex-girlfriend) is coming with me to see our favourite band in September. We have tickets and both our mums are going.

But she has become a b*tch. Now I realise what she's actually like. She's rude. She swears at people for the slightest things, for example, you could throw a tiny twig at her and she'd turn to you and say "F*ck off" before turning back to what she was doing. She might even hold a grudge for the rest of the day. She's violent and hits people as well as swearing at them, as I've already said.

She's also selfish, even though she expects people to share and holds a grudge if they don't. She calls people things and if they get angry she acts like it was their fault.

I hate her. I hate her guts. But she still has to go with me to the concert in September, and I'm almost positive that both of us will be enemies by then.

She's also my boyfriend's best friend, which makes things 10x worse.

I need some serious advice about this. Anything would be appreciated. I just need help.

[Pi.R^2]

It doesn't sound like you'll have a brilliant time at this gig; would it be worth trying to sell your tickets? I know it will be sad to miss out on seeing the band, but perhaps you'd rather not see them than have to go with this girl?

[aphrodite_bluuu]

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Originally Posted by Pi.R^2

It doesn't sound like you'll have a brilliant time at this gig; would it be worth trying to sell your tickets? I know it will be sad to miss out on seeing the band, but perhaps you'd rather not see them than have to go with this girl?

That's a good idea, thank you. The tickets sell for about $300 now that they're sold out on the actual store. so I could potentially gain $600. but I do want to go. I'm thinking of giving her the money back for the tickets and taking another friend, or selling her old tickets.

[Enthused]

Why can't you guys just go separately?

[Escaping Sadness]

If you still decide to go, just don't give her any fuel. Just try your best to concentrate on enjoying the show. If she tries to antagonize you, don't take the bait. Does your mom know about your history together? Could you get her to stand in between her and you? This way you can avoid most confrontation with her.

[Aubergine]

As Enthused has said, is it an option for you to go separately?