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Old 10-11-2015, 11:59 PM   #1
BeautifulFreak24
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Graphic - Unexpected Pregnancy...

I don't know if this is the right place to post this... if it isn't please let me know. I apologize in advance.


I am really really scared right now. I just found out today that I am pregnant. I don't know what to do.
My fiance and I aren't married yet - we're living together. We are supposed to be married in June.
My parents are going to freak out that I got pregnant before I got married. And I am just so so scared.

I know I'm keeping the baby, but that's about it.



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Old 12-11-2015, 02:50 PM   #2
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Hi Angela,
Are you truly sure they will freak? Are they super religious or something?
Provided they aren't, I doubt they will freak. Bit of shock and possibly passing disappointment, but they ought to get over it and be super excited from you and your hubby to be. Their baby girl is having their grandchild.
If they are super religious, maybe the shock will include anger for a bit, but when they see the baby they will forgive you. If not remind them the child is sinless, and the lord forgave everyone. Or find appropriate things in their text if it isn't Christianity.
If they are abusive or generally nasty, do you honestly want that type of people in your child's life?
I don't know about your family situation, but you might be surprised how they react. Newborns melt hearts. Grandkids are a blessing for most parents. Even if they haven't arrived in the best circumstances.
Good luck with your pregnancy, I wish you an easy pregnancy and birth, and a healthy baby.



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