Is kissing counted as cheating??

[havealittlefaith]

Would you say kissin someone else is counted as cheating or what constitutes as ćeating on your OH x

[Enthused]

I would say it counts as cheating

[Aquifolia]

Depends on how open you are with your significant other, I would say.

[FabulousMike]

Of course it's cheating, don't you know you can get pregnant by kissing?!

[Jefferson.Meriwether]

I don't class giving a friend a friendly peck on the cheek as cheating. A full on snog with oodles of tommy tongue would be cheating IMO

[BridgesAndBalloons]

I'd personally class romantic kissing as cheating, obviously if they're just giving a friend a kiss goodbye on their cheek for example then I'd not class that as cheating.

[griddlebone]

Anything above a peck is cheating to me.

[Ranger Fairy]

If its a friendly kiss [comforting them or saying hello/goodbye] then that's fine. Anything romantic or passionate/full on is certainly cheating. If its because of an attraction to someone then its cheating.

[havealittlefaith]

thanks guys!!
opps i THINK its safe to say I don't have any standards :O

P.S do break counts??

[BridgesAndBalloons]

I guess it depends on what you define cheating as in your relationship, everyone will have their own personal thoughts based on their own opinions, but I think what really matters is what you and your partner think.

I would think personally that if a relationship was put on hold, and both people are okay with the idea of their partner possibly being with someone else in any sense whilst on the break, then it's okay.

[Enthused]

If you were on a break you have to think about trail. Could your other half find out? Plus if you tell him you'll have the whole "we were on a break!" Argument.

[Bellatrix]

if you and your partner have agreed to have a relatioship in which you can do X Y Z with other people and it be mutually agreed upon then that's fine.
Other than that, kissing (bar hello/goodbye/thank you pecks on the lips/cheeks) is cheating.

[akita]

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Originally Posted by ThePrincessOfDenial

kissing (bar hello/goodbye/thank you pecks on the lips/cheeks) is cheating.

I agree.

[beautiful_seclusion]

I would find any romantic kissing to be cheating but it totally depends on what you and your partner have decided on. As a general rule, any romantic physical contact is cheating unless you and your partner have decided otherwise. It's what most people assume so if you want something different it needs to be communicated. I do have a friend who is in an open relationship with her fiancé but they have rules and are totally honest about it. As for breaks, I think it's really important to define what a break means to both of you. That really depends on the couple so it really needs to be discussed if you want to try and save the relationship.

[Rodolphus]

I agree with 'if you have to ask, it's not okay'. If you're not sure about your behaviour, and you have doubts about how appropriate you acted, then it's cheating.

[LegoGirl]

Yes I'd say it is.

[over and out]

if its not a peck its not ok

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Originally Posted by Tyrannicide

Really depends on the type of kiss. With me generally it'd be if it was on the lips or not.

edit; that's not to say you can kiss anywhere other than the lips and it's not cheating...

I lol'd and thought something very wrong for this answer

[Daryl]

face palm.

[griddlebone]

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Originally Posted by Enthused

If you were on a break you have to think about trail. Could your other half find out? Plus if you tell him you'll have the whole "we were on a break!" Argument.

Someones been watching friends!x

[yuno44907]

Leaving is cheating; other stuff are just not important.