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NikNik · 11-08-2013, 05:24 AM

The most uncomfortable feeling in the world, in my opinion, is the feeling I am feeling right now.
Feeling <--- Annoying word.
It's called loneliness,
Yes
Loneliness
I have a couple awesome friends, this is true.
But things are complicated now and my mind is going insane.
So either A)friends are not enough for me or B)the friends I have are not good enough of friends...but that is impossible, I know my friends are FRIENDS...I love them and I know they care for me too. ...heh
So, I'm thinking maybe I need something more?
I have no idea what I am talking about, I guess I am just rambling...
Which is good, it is helping me, yay x_x
The reason this is under 'self harm' is because I have an urge to CUT, yo
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Focus
Can someone, whom is REALLY WILLING TO HELP, message/respond me PLEASE. I am picky though. So no 'breatheeee' or 'you will be okay'...I want FEEDBACK.
Also, OUT OF THIS SITE is preferred.
Dude, thanks for reading this bullsh it.
Thanks
xNikolexx
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TimesLikeThese · 11-08-2013, 11:37 AM

Hi Nikole, I'm sorry to hear you are feeling lonely right now and have the urge to cut. Have you tried contacting your two good friends for support?

I have found that sometimes it's not so much that friends aren't enough or aren't good enough, but it is more to do with your mood and what's going on with yourself - you can have 10,000 friends and still feel alone when you're depressed.

Well done on reaching out and I'm glad that you found rambling a bit helpful.

Take care xxxx

NikNik · 11-08-2013, 05:36 PM

Wow, that was amazing feedback.
Great.

TimesLikeThese · 11-08-2013, 06:40 PM

Is there anything else we can help you with?

CrazyChaoticMess · 11-08-2013, 08:04 PM

Loneliness sucks. And you know you have friends that care and what not. Do these friends know how you've been feeling? The whole feeling like you need something more; we all get that from time to time. Like even though we have someone whose willing to listen to our bullcrap it doesn't seem like they're actually taking it in.

Sometimes it's good to ramble and if it helps why not. Anything trigger the urge or have things just been generally building up? Here if you want to talk further.

PassedExpectations · 13-08-2013, 10:56 PM

got to agree with Sarah, it sounds like friends just aren't quite enough to fix the bigger problem. that doesn't mean that they aren't important or helpful, it just means that on their own, they aren't sufficient. what other components of your life might you use to help you feel better? are you missing any other components that you need?