Anyways, my question, should I really have to change myself, my look etc just to get ladies? Or what? I don't know, it has been playing on my mind.
I think the only time you should change yourself is because you want to change, not for the sake of anyone else/friends/society 'norms' etc, just because you want to change for you.
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Originally Posted by griddlebone
Someone who I consider to be one of my best friends says the same thing to me!
You shouldnt have to change yourself to find someone, the only reason you should change is if youre not happy with yourself.
I totally agree Liv.
I've always been on the bigger side, but in the last eight or so years it became more complicated as different medications made me gain weight while I was taking them.
Having said that, I've never really had very much of problem with finding boyfriends, I suppose I've not really placed much importance on looks so I've generally had boyfriends who were of a similar mindset and so weren't bothered that I was of a larger size.
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I mean if your torn up on the inside should u be torn up on the outside
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
Mike, you are a lovely and handsome chap and you shouldnt have to change for anyone. I cant stand people who think changing the outside will get you attention from the opposite sex (or same sex depending on your preferences).
Also, this thread is a little bit weird. I think it is a good idea to have a relationship thread though :) The title is a little ambiguous :\
My only relationship woe is that I am in love with a married guy, but I dont particularly need support on that because I know the deal.
Sorry this is a very random post - I just wanted to show Mike some support!
He walked passed to today and did nothing didn't Evan look at me
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
just thort u should know that ive made a doctors apointment for tuesday to see if i have depression and i think i have bipolar but not too sure
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
just thort u should know that ive made a doctors apointment for tuesday to see if i have depression and i think i have bipolar but not too sure
Good luck at the doctors Ashlee, I haven't seen you around for a while. Just be honest about how you've been feeling and they'll help you along by asking questions and such.
Perhaps make another thread on the MH board telling us what the doctors say?
Good luck at the doctors Ashlee, I haven't seen you around for a while. Just be honest about how you've been feeling and they'll help you along by asking questions and such.
Perhaps make another thread on the MH board telling us what the doctors say?
- Holly
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I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
ive been thinking lately that anti-depression pills might help my sean problem, might make me able to let go and i hope they will cos, ive kinda been drinking alot lately (alcohol) not enough to get my drunk but enough to make me feel better and not think into things to much.
ie also been debating to myself weather i should give up and stop fighting, let all my emotions take over including self harm and eating disorders.
ive kinda been slipping in the the eating disorder again, but i think i have it under controle again now
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
if they give me pills will i be able to collect them myself
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
if they give me pills will i be able to collect them myself
Ashlee, I'm afraid they most likely wont give you antidepressants to help with a breakup... It will not help you to get over it because the feelings and thought processes will still be there. (This is why most people put on medication will also be given therapy to tackle the sole problem.) Antidepressants only correct a chemical imbalance in the brain, if there is one. Your feelings come from 1 sole reason, and only time and therapy to change your way of thinking will change that.
Nonetheless, if you are given antidepressants then yes you will be able to collect them yourself from a pharmacy. Assuming you're still 15 and under the care of the NHS, prescriptions should be free.
I really think its' time for you to move on from Sean... He most likely has done so long ago. You have your exams coming up so ty to focus all of your energy on those, they're more important!
doctors tomorrow and im scared.
what sort of questions will they ask??
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
It depends what you are going for. I suggest writing down why you are there, what you're worried about, what you are struggling with and they'll take it from there. Most importantly, be honest with everything they ask so you can get the correct help you need.
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
