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[Black sheep]

Help I can't cope with life any more my mother don't accept that I'm a lesbian and she said that she will never accept it I've bent out for like 10 years I've shown here my partners but she hates them I've got real close to my new girl and we are talking about moving in together but with my mother hating me for what I am really breaks my heart I just wanna hurt my self and end it all but then I think of my girl and then I don't but I just want my mother to accept it please help me here I beg any one please help me

[Its_Just_A_Mask]

I'm sorry your mum isn't as accepting as some people are, I'm sure within time she may come to accept you! Perhaps you could show her websites etc which give parents advice on how to accept their gay child.
I personally think a parent should love their child no matter what, and I don't believe being a lesbian makes you any different to if you were straight! You are still you. Maybe tell her this? Tell her how upsetting it is.
I hope this all works out for you. It's nice you have a partner who understands..Don't hurt yourself, it never helps, I will tell you that. xx

[Black sheep]

I just can't cope with my mum being like this it's been 10 years but she won't ever accept it she made that clear tonight to me she told me on front of everyone that she will never accept it and she pushes me away because of it and now I just hate how we are it's breaking my heart tearing me apart like

[PassedExpectations]

how do the rest of your family respond? maybe it would be possible to lessen contact with your mom but still stay close to the rest of your family if they support you...

[Black sheep]

They all support me maybe it's time to forget all others and make my self happy I don't no anymore

[Wonderland.]

You definitely should put yourself first.

If she can't be accepting of her own daughters sexuality, then that's her problem, her loss.

I'm glad that at least some of your family are supportive to you.

I can relate to how rejecting and hurtful your own mother not being accepting of your sexuality as I am also a lesbian and my own mother said to me that if I was gay that I'd be pushed more out of the family than I was, this was before I even knew I was gay.

But when I did realise and came out about it I was lucky to have supportive friends and don't have much to do with family anyway so its not really an issue.

You should be proud of everything you are including your sexuality. Don't let anyone bring you down and make you feel worthless just because your not straight.

Take care.
Amy x